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Just recently was pretty much forced out of a relationship. The reason... she found out I was an atheist. I’m guessing I’m not the only one I could use some words of encouragement right about now.

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hwidtyayth 3 21 comments Mar 21

Another potential relationship ruined because I won't be in a threesome with him, and his god. I need to move out of the bible belt before I even think about dating again. Funny how I can accept other people's faith, but they can't accept my lack ...

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Karna 3 26 comments Mar 19

My mom is threatening not to come to my wedding because it's not a religious ceremony. sigh

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Lemons 5 52 comments Mar 18

Wedding vows. Are atheists vows stronger than religious vows?

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missgi 4 31 comments Mar 17

On Ethical Sluts, I posted a very misleading, confusing, and frankly, when read a certain way, insulting spiel about the "men" who dislike, even hate, sluts, defined in this honorable and respectful space, as proudly promiscuous women who love sex in...

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Storm1752 6 13 comments Mar 17

Today would have been our 44th Wedding Anniversary if Lisa hadn't lost her battle with cancer. On the day we were Married up on Long Island, all the weathermen were saying that the temperatures would be in the very low 30's F (around 0 C) with ...

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AncientNight 8 14 comments Mar 15

LINK Humanist marriages least likely to end in divorce, official statistics reveal » Humanists UK

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zblaze 7 4 comments Mar 15

Relationships

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TonyAndrews 4 10 comments Mar 12

I live in a city where there are nine women to every man. So why does many men find it difficult to find a partner. I have heard of women who pay for the mens drinks, and offer to take them home. I think men have it made today

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Backslidden 4 43 comments Feb 20

POLL Recent discussion with a friend: How many of you can overlook differences in religious beliefs in a relationship? Could it work between a believer and a non-believer? What do you guys think? I’m in an area that is 95% Christian, and it has been ...

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Michael76 3 24 comments Feb 19

Oscar-nominated documentary "Minding the Gap" tackles domestic violence through the lens of race and gender

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LiterateHiker 8 5 comments Feb 18

How to write a Sext that doesn't suck

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LiterateHiker 8 22 comments Feb 18

just gonna leave this here:

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tinkercreek 5 20 comments Feb 16

places to meet people?

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Janiesuper 6 46 comments Feb 16

Today I found that I had 5 long emails from an older member who lives in "the rust belt". I had not seen them previously which started on V-Day. He provided me with his phone number and demanded I call him. After not responding to the first two ...

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Corvislover 6 39 comments Feb 16

I'm just wondering why all you atheists celebrate Valentine's Day? Isn't it a Christian fairy tale day? I want someone to ask me out on a date but not because hallmark needed a reason to sell cards in February. I would rather go out with someone ...

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confidentrealm 7 47 comments Feb 14

LINK 11 Literary Pick Up Lines for the Chronically Dateless | Literary Hub

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Lilburne 4 4 comments Feb 13

So, I have secretly been becoming secretly attracted to someone on this site, but they're not nearby. what's the best way to proceed?

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Unclehotrod 6 19 comments Feb 9

What was your most absurd first date?

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LiterateHiker 8 28 comments Feb 7

Ziddi bhi hu nadan bhi hu Par jesa hu khud ka favorite hu Bole to PK love😎👈🏻

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Suraj 1 5 comments Feb 5

I'm curious to see if anyone feels the way I feel. I'm a married man. I'm agnostic and my wife is Christian. In the beginning, my lack of religion was an issue. I let her believe in her Good and she didn't try to tell me I'm wrong for believing the ...

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Dolove40 4 14 comments Jan 30

I felt a bit weird writing out my biography last night. As much as I know about myself I don't really think much about putting it into words. I laughed when I saw that I was "level 1". If there is anything that describes how I feel as a single ...

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Vinc3 3 15 comments Jan 30

Thinking of signing up for Tinder. Does it allow LGBT people to choose other LGBT people? Will I be able to have men not see my profile? What can I expect from it?

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HeathenWoman 6 5 comments Jan 28

why do people fall in love and end up crying?

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blyana 2 13 comments Jan 27

If you're poor, would you date?

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NisargUS 4 42 comments Jan 26

Need a date for Valentines to feel like a girl again....

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PamMcD92 3 5 comments Jan 22

In marriage, isn't it the willingness to please your mate that you accept making changes in your lifestyle to have a successful marriage?

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Marine 8 6 comments Jan 21

Is it true that educated women do not want a relationship with a guy who has a good career, but is more of a hands on type worker?

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Mom-goddess 5 22 comments Jan 20

"Digisexual": <Sexually attracted to robots.> Yet another sexual orientation to add to the vast list of obscure and amusing "orientations". Sorry folks.... This old heterosexual male just finds it all very confusing. ;-)

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bigpawbullets 8 17 comments Jan 20

LINK Anti Social - A Modern Dating Horror Story | Comic Relief Originals - YouTube

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BeeHappy 9 4 comments Jan 20

So... A friend of mine told me the story of how she inadvertently neglected to change the age category on a profile she completed for online dating. She is 60 but the site defaulted to 40. She is in great shape and could probably pass for a 45 year ...

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SukiSue 8 29 comments Jan 20

What is love

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Destinyanne 4 44 comments Jan 17

LINK Lost Cat: An Illustrated Meditation on Love, Loss, and What It Means To Be Human – Brain Pickings

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tnorman1236 8 4 comments Jan 17

I've tried chatting with two men I 'met' on here. After being on my own for nine years, I've come to the conclusion that I'm just too set in my ways and like being alone too much to go into any kind of relationship. You'd think I'd welcome a ...

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Alvinsmama 8 33 comments Jan 17

The Boys are Watching

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LiterateHiker 8 7 comments Jan 17

Why the Smartest People Have the Toughest Time Dating [huffpost.com]

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misternatureboy 7 14 comments Jan 16

I can't argue with that...

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BeeHappy 9 6 comments Jan 15

Atheists and Star Trek fans in one place? I think I’m in heaven lol

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Rrainn 3 8 comments Jan 13

How would you like to repeatedly get the same canned message?

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LiterateHiker 8 17 comments Jan 7

Religion and Marriage

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Dewayne5068 4 11 comments Jan 7

Curious... If you have found success on here in finding a significant other or just local friends... let’s hear it. Spread the positivity...

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WeaZ 7 26 comments Jan 6

What's in a smile?

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BeeHappy 9 19 comments Dec 30, 2018

Controlling your Atheism...

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ThorR 5 41 comments Dec 29, 2018

New partner after a long time relationship finished?

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spiritualless 4 19 comments Dec 22, 2018

How have you recycled a gift you don't want?

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LiterateHiker 8 24 comments Dec 21, 2018

UPS Crush: So I've been crushing on the UPS guy that delivers to my work for longer than I'd like to admit. It literally took me months to get my act together to see if he was wearing a wedding ring because I get so flustered when he comes in. He ...

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Marcie1974 8 25 comments Dec 19, 2018

Am I doomed relationship wise being a minority in a minority?

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chas1 3 40 comments Dec 16, 2018

How do you deal with people who like to argue?

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EmeraldJewel 7 66 comments Dec 16, 2018

The surprising way smartphones affect our brains and our lives

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LiterateHiker 8 25 comments Dec 14, 2018

This is how a church should be. Your thoughts?

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LiterateHiker 8 32 comments Dec 9, 2018

I have been remiss in not updating you on the third long-distance visit. I was there almost 4 weeks, and DharmaBum50 and I had a wonderful visit! He showed me around Berea, KY, and we travelled to Asheville, NC, drove the beautiful Blue Ridge ...

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EllenDale 7 30 comments Dec 9, 2018

Thanks for your encouragement! Got it done.

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LiterateHiker 8 8 comments Dec 7, 2018

POLL When to write a man off?

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brainyactress 7 55 comments Dec 4, 2018

POLL Are atheists less likely to fall in love? Love has been described as "unconditional positive regard". Not very romantic I grant you but accurate to a degree. Theists open themselves up to "gods love" without question. It is a matter of faith. We ...

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273kelvin 8 28 comments Dec 2, 2018

FOR MANY PEOPLE, SELF-DETERMINATION, PERSISTENCE, AND PATIENCE LEAD TO SUCCESS Many of us don't try because we are afraid to fail. Michael Jordan said, "The key to success is failure." What I think he meant by that is that a person often has ...

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permanwilson 7 5 comments Nov 30, 2018

Emotional response

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darien75 7 5 comments Nov 30, 2018

POLL Dating in todays society

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darien75 7 27 comments Nov 28, 2018

For men on dating sites. A woman recently posted on here that it makes her uncomfortable when men message her for the first time and say hey baby, hey sexy, or hey beautiful. I totally and completely get why it makes her uncomfortable. I have ...

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Marcie1974 8 71 comments Nov 26, 2018

How can you express your feeling to a woman you love ?

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godisgood10 1 10 comments Nov 26, 2018

Religion vs Atheism

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TheAquarius 4 17 comments Nov 26, 2018

Is it possible to fall in love with someone with opposing political views?

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Grumpy 5 87 comments Nov 22, 2018

I am coming out to my boyfriend tomorrow! Any advice? We have been dating for a year and I was religious going into this relationship. I think it’s only fair to him to at least be honest because that’s what I admire about our relationship. He ...

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chlorine413 6 34 comments Nov 21, 2018

This has probably been asked before, but I'll drag it up again. Is or has anyone been in a relationship with a very religious person? How has that worked? Would you do it again?

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MagicOfReality 3 10 comments Nov 21, 2018

How to overcome the Emotional blackmailing of religious relatives ? Especially religious parents

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Baggio 2 4 comments Nov 21, 2018

Need help on Christmas (Ugh, I know) Present

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KenChang 7 19 comments Nov 20, 2018

Things you don't find acceptable.

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darien75 7 12 comments Nov 20, 2018

Is it harder for non-believers to find love?

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Ronaldo 3 41 comments Nov 19, 2018

For those single people out there, it’s already hard enough finding a compatible “other half” but adding the desire to have that person be non-religion. It’s just almost impossible to check off all the boxes. How do you date (or do you)? I...

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MemphisMel 4 27 comments Nov 16, 2018

A question for all those that are looking for a date/mate/lover ... If you see a profile you like, but they describe themselves as "bisexual", does that eliminate them in your mind ? Why - or why not ?

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evergreen 8 23 comments Nov 13, 2018

For you, what is the difference between "like" and "love"?

Posted in Real Intimacy group

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DoDapper 8 15 comments Nov 12, 2018

Scientists Discover Adorable Bird That's Actually 3 Species in One

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LiterateHiker 8 7 comments Nov 11, 2018

[huffpost.com] What It is Like To Date Online As A Trans Person Transgender men and women share their dating experiences and talk about what dating apps can do to be more trans friendly.

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Dougy 7 10 comments Nov 10, 2018

How do you feel about kids when dating? How many is too many? Do their ages matter? When is a good time to introduce them to your partner?

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antman 7 20 comments Nov 9, 2018

What is your best definition of being in love?

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paul1967 8 35 comments Nov 9, 2018

Do you and your spouse agree on the god thing?

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TimothyJ 4 17 comments Nov 8, 2018

What are some warning signs that a relationship is not going to work? Here are some starter ideas: 1.) addiction - alcohol, sex, drugs, etc 2.) Incompatible faiths 3.) Siamese twins - a threesome would just be too weird.

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UrsiMajor 8 10 comments Nov 4, 2018

Dating advice. Ok. You guys are my communal (and most importantly, unpaid) dating consultants. So I went out a date on Friday night with a woman i met from an online dating site. We had a reasonably nice time, and I found her funny and ...

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KenChang 7 29 comments Nov 4, 2018

Dating on this site

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Dollwiser 4 19 comments Nov 4, 2018

Describe your sex life using only a movie title.

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Eazyduzzit 7 36 comments Nov 4, 2018

On a first date do you go Dutch (share the bill)?

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paul1967 8 26 comments Nov 3, 2018

Marriage and the non believer...

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ghettophilosopher 7 27 comments Nov 2, 2018

Helpful tips you learned as an adult?

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LiterateHiker 8 52 comments Oct 29, 2018

How many times have you felt this way in life? [psychologytoday.com] 6 Certain Signs of Being in Love Science-based ways to know if you're in love. Posted Jun 23, 2017 Is this love or is it something else? People talk about being "in"...

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alanalorie 7 6 comments Oct 29, 2018

Is This Taboo?

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KitKat1996 4 97 comments Oct 29, 2018

Do you consider yourself a good lover to your partner or spouse and why?

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Nardi 7 49 comments Oct 25, 2018

POLL Does your partner need to share your beliefs? I think there is no other way around. What do you think?

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Granateo 4 17 comments Oct 23, 2018

What's the best response to "why are you so quiet'?

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jafbm 5 84 comments Oct 21, 2018

POLL How do you handle negativity regarding your agnostic ideas?

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Bettyann 4 41 comments Oct 21, 2018

Believer/Non-believer relationships

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Philosoraptor 4 18 comments Oct 20, 2018

POLL When AI and Android tech gets sophisticated enough to mimic your dream partner what will happen to romance?

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paul1967 8 31 comments Oct 20, 2018

LINK There Is A Difference Between Dating and Courting | Sugardaddie.com

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WarmFluffy 7 16 comments Oct 20, 2018

In recent years I have become obsessed with perfection within my home. I was driving myself crazy with a need to clean and primp. Friends commented because it was so much not “like” me. Where was the OCD-like behavior coming from? I think I was ...

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SukiSue 8 27 comments Oct 17, 2018

Do we ever truly get over childhood hurts?

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LiterateHiker 8 74 comments Oct 16, 2018

Better Relationship?

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TMWB86 4 38 comments Oct 16, 2018

Hey guys! I created an Infidelity Support Group. Please share and/or join! Thanks! ❤️ [agnostic.com]

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daitheflu317 6 19 comments Oct 15, 2018

Emotional Availability: Where does the "vulnerability" end and the stupidity begin?

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KenChang 7 20 comments Oct 14, 2018

K...been dead for a year and a half since my beloved died...have met some woman through that period so a year and a bit has passed .......and have now met my soul mate..she accepts that I am a a musician have long hair and a beard...so yes it can ...

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Dragoria 6 26 comments Oct 14, 2018

Just wondering, about past experiences. Im on a couple dating sites, and have had several dates with women are church going Christians. My Bio clearly states agnostic, but yet they continue to agree to, even ask for a meet and greet. they say they ...

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