Love & Relationships
Just recently was pretty much forced out of a relationship. The reason... she found out I was an atheist. I’m guessing I’m not the only one I could use some words of encouragement right about now.
By hwidtyayth 3 21 comments TN Mar 21
Another potential relationship ruined because I won't be in a threesome with him, and his god. I need to move out of the bible belt before I even think about dating again. Funny how I can accept other people's faith, but they can't accept my lack ...
By Karna 3 26 comments SC Mar 19
My mom is threatening not to come to my wedding because it's not a religious ceremony. sigh
By Lemons 5 52 comments IL Mar 18
Wedding vows. Are atheists vows stronger than religious vows?
By missgi 4 31 comments CA Mar 17
On Ethical Sluts, I posted a very misleading, confusing, and frankly, when read a certain way, insulting spiel about the "men" who dislike, even hate, sluts, defined in this honorable and respectful space, as proudly promiscuous women who love sex in...
By Storm1752 6 13 comments FL Mar 17
Today would have been our 44th Wedding Anniversary if Lisa hadn't lost her battle with cancer. On the day we were Married up on Long Island, all the weathermen were saying that the temperatures would be in the very low 30's F (around 0 C) with ...
By AncientNight 8 14 comments VA Mar 15
LINK Humanist marriages least likely to end in divorce, official statistics reveal » Humanists UK
By zblaze 7 4 comments OR Mar 15
By TonyAndrews 4 10 comments IN Mar 12
I live in a city where there are nine women to every man. So why does many men find it difficult to find a partner. I have heard of women who pay for the mens drinks, and offer to take them home. I think men have it made today
By Backslidden 4 43 comments Canada Feb 20
POLL Recent discussion with a friend: How many of you can overlook differences in religious beliefs in a relationship? Could it work between a believer and a non-believer? What do you guys think? I’m in an area that is 95% Christian, and it has been ...
By Michael76 3 24 comments NC Feb 19
Oscar-nominated documentary "Minding the Gap" tackles domestic violence through the lens of race and gender
By LiterateHiker 8 5 comments WA Feb 18
How to write a Sext that doesn't suck
By LiterateHiker 8 22 comments WA Feb 18
just gonna leave this here:
By tinkercreek 5 20 comments OR Feb 16
places to meet people?
By Janiesuper 6 46 comments NM Feb 16
Today I found that I had 5 long emails from an older member who lives in "the rust belt". I had not seen them previously which started on V-Day. He provided me with his phone number and demanded I call him. After not responding to the first two ...
By Corvislover 6 39 comments AZ Feb 16
I'm just wondering why all you atheists celebrate Valentine's Day? Isn't it a Christian fairy tale day? I want someone to ask me out on a date but not because hallmark needed a reason to sell cards in February. I would rather go out with someone ...
By confidentrealm 7 47 comments TX Feb 14
LINK 11 Literary Pick Up Lines for the Chronically Dateless | Literary Hub
By Lilburne 4 4 comments Australia Feb 13
So, I have secretly been becoming secretly attracted to someone on this site, but they're not nearby. what's the best way to proceed?
By Unclehotrod 6 19 comments NM Feb 9
What was your most absurd first date?
By LiterateHiker 8 28 comments WA Feb 7
Ziddi bhi hu nadan bhi hu Par jesa hu khud ka favorite hu Bole to PK love😎👈🏻
By Suraj 1 5 comments India Feb 5
I'm curious to see if anyone feels the way I feel. I'm a married man. I'm agnostic and my wife is Christian. In the beginning, my lack of religion was an issue. I let her believe in her Good and she didn't try to tell me I'm wrong for believing the ...
By Dolove40 4 14 comments TX Jan 30
I felt a bit weird writing out my biography last night. As much as I know about myself I don't really think much about putting it into words. I laughed when I saw that I was "level 1". If there is anything that describes how I feel as a single ...
By Vinc3 3 15 comments TX Jan 30
Thinking of signing up for Tinder. Does it allow LGBT people to choose other LGBT people? Will I be able to have men not see my profile? What can I expect from it?
By HeathenWoman 6 5 comments AR Jan 28
why do people fall in love and end up crying?
By blyana 2 13 comments Philippines Jan 27
If you're poor, would you date?
By NisargUS 4 42 comments NC Jan 26
Need a date for Valentines to feel like a girl again....
By PamMcD92 3 5 comments TX Jan 22
In marriage, isn't it the willingness to please your mate that you accept making changes in your lifestyle to have a successful marriage?
By Marine 8 6 comments CT Jan 21
Is it true that educated women do not want a relationship with a guy who has a good career, but is more of a hands on type worker?
By Mom-goddess 5 22 comments TN Jan 20
"Digisexual": <Sexually attracted to robots.> Yet another sexual orientation to add to the vast list of obscure and amusing "orientations". Sorry folks.... This old heterosexual male just finds it all very confusing. ;-)
By bigpawbullets 8 17 comments OH Jan 20
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By BeeHappy 9 4 comments NV Jan 20
So... A friend of mine told me the story of how she inadvertently neglected to change the age category on a profile she completed for online dating. She is 60 but the site defaulted to 40. She is in great shape and could probably pass for a 45 year ...
By SukiSue 8 29 comments MA Jan 20
What is love
By Destinyanne 4 44 comments TX Jan 17
LINK Lost Cat: An Illustrated Meditation on Love, Loss, and What It Means To Be Human – Brain Pickings
By tnorman1236 8 4 comments WV Jan 17
I've tried chatting with two men I 'met' on here. After being on my own for nine years, I've come to the conclusion that I'm just too set in my ways and like being alone too much to go into any kind of relationship. You'd think I'd welcome a ...
By Alvinsmama 8 33 comments NC Jan 17
The Boys are Watching
By LiterateHiker 8 7 comments WA Jan 17
Why the Smartest People Have the Toughest Time Dating []
By misternatureboy 7 14 comments CA Jan 16
I can't argue with that...
By BeeHappy 9 6 comments NV Jan 15
Atheists and Star Trek fans in one place? I think I’m in heaven lol
By Rrainn 3 8 comments Canada Jan 13
How would you like to repeatedly get the same canned message?
By LiterateHiker 8 17 comments WA Jan 7
Religion and Marriage
By Dewayne5068 4 11 comments TN Jan 7
Curious... If you have found success on here in finding a significant other or just local friends... let’s hear it. Spread the positivity...
By WeaZ 7 26 comments MO Jan 6
What's in a smile?
By BeeHappy 9 19 comments NV Dec 30, 2018
Controlling your Atheism...
By ThorR 5 41 comments OR Dec 29, 2018
New partner after a long time relationship finished?
By spiritualless 4 19 comments UK Dec 22, 2018
How have you recycled a gift you don't want?
By LiterateHiker 8 24 comments WA Dec 21, 2018
UPS Crush: So I've been crushing on the UPS guy that delivers to my work for longer than I'd like to admit. It literally took me months to get my act together to see if he was wearing a wedding ring because I get so flustered when he comes in. He ...
By Marcie1974 8 25 comments MN Dec 19, 2018
Am I doomed relationship wise being a minority in a minority?
By chas1 3 40 comments FL Dec 16, 2018
How do you deal with people who like to argue?
By EmeraldJewel 7 66 comments OK Dec 16, 2018
The surprising way smartphones affect our brains and our lives
By LiterateHiker 8 25 comments WA Dec 14, 2018
This is how a church should be. Your thoughts?
By LiterateHiker 8 32 comments WA Dec 9, 2018
I have been remiss in not updating you on the third long-distance visit. I was there almost 4 weeks, and DharmaBum50 and I had a wonderful visit! He showed me around Berea, KY, and we travelled to Asheville, NC, drove the beautiful Blue Ridge ...
By EllenDale 7 30 comments MI Dec 9, 2018
Thanks for your encouragement! Got it done.
By LiterateHiker 8 8 comments WA Dec 7, 2018
POLL When to write a man off?
By brainyactress 7 55 comments GA Dec 4, 2018
POLL Are atheists less likely to fall in love? Love has been described as "unconditional positive regard". Not very romantic I grant you but accurate to a degree. Theists open themselves up to "gods love" without question. It is a matter of faith. We ...
By 273kelvin 8 28 comments UK Dec 2, 2018
FOR MANY PEOPLE, SELF-DETERMINATION, PERSISTENCE, AND PATIENCE LEAD TO SUCCESS Many of us don't try because we are afraid to fail. Michael Jordan said, "The key to success is failure." What I think he meant by that is that a person often has ...
By permanwilson 7 5 comments NJ Nov 30, 2018
Emotional response
By darien75 7 5 comments UK Nov 30, 2018
POLL Dating in todays society
By darien75 7 27 comments UK Nov 28, 2018
For men on dating sites. A woman recently posted on here that it makes her uncomfortable when men message her for the first time and say hey baby, hey sexy, or hey beautiful. I totally and completely get why it makes her uncomfortable. I have ...
By Marcie1974 8 71 comments MN Nov 26, 2018
How can you express your feeling to a woman you love ?
By godisgood10 1 10 comments CA Nov 26, 2018
Religion vs Atheism
By TheAquarius 4 17 comments Dominican Republic Nov 26, 2018
Is it possible to fall in love with someone with opposing political views?
By Grumpy 5 87 comments UK Nov 22, 2018
I am coming out to my boyfriend tomorrow! Any advice? We have been dating for a year and I was religious going into this relationship. I think it’s only fair to him to at least be honest because that’s what I admire about our relationship. He ...
By chlorine413 6 34 comments CA Nov 21, 2018
This has probably been asked before, but I'll drag it up again. Is or has anyone been in a relationship with a very religious person? How has that worked? Would you do it again?
By MagicOfReality 3 10 comments KY Nov 21, 2018
How to overcome the Emotional blackmailing of religious relatives ? Especially religious parents
By Baggio 2 4 comments India Nov 21, 2018
Need help on Christmas (Ugh, I know) Present
By KenChang 7 19 comments WA Nov 20, 2018
Things you don't find acceptable.
By darien75 7 12 comments UK Nov 20, 2018
Is it harder for non-believers to find love?
By Ronaldo 3 41 comments Philippines Nov 19, 2018
For those single people out there, it’s already hard enough finding a compatible “other half” but adding the desire to have that person be non-religion. It’s just almost impossible to check off all the boxes. How do you date (or do you)? I...
By MemphisMel 4 27 comments TN Nov 16, 2018
A question for all those that are looking for a date/mate/lover ... If you see a profile you like, but they describe themselves as "bisexual", does that eliminate them in your mind ? Why - or why not ?
By evergreen 8 23 comments FL Nov 13, 2018
For you, what is the difference between "like" and "love"?
Posted in Real Intimacy group
By DoDapper 8 15 comments MN Nov 12, 2018
Scientists Discover Adorable Bird That's Actually 3 Species in One
By LiterateHiker 8 7 comments WA Nov 11, 2018
[] What It is Like To Date Online As A Trans Person Transgender men and women share their dating experiences and talk about what dating apps can do to be more trans friendly.
By Dougy 7 10 comments WV Nov 10, 2018
How do you feel about kids when dating? How many is too many? Do their ages matter? When is a good time to introduce them to your partner?
By antman 7 20 comments FL Nov 9, 2018
What is your best definition of being in love?
By paul1967 8 35 comments CA Nov 9, 2018
Do you and your spouse agree on the god thing?
By TimothyJ 4 17 comments MN Nov 8, 2018
What are some warning signs that a relationship is not going to work? Here are some starter ideas: 1.) addiction - alcohol, sex, drugs, etc 2.) Incompatible faiths 3.) Siamese twins - a threesome would just be too weird.
By UrsiMajor 8 10 comments MD Nov 4, 2018
Dating advice. Ok. You guys are my communal (and most importantly, unpaid) dating consultants. So I went out a date on Friday night with a woman i met from an online dating site. We had a reasonably nice time, and I found her funny and ...
By KenChang 7 29 comments WA Nov 4, 2018
Dating on this site
By Dollwiser 4 19 comments TN Nov 4, 2018
Describe your sex life using only a movie title.
By Eazyduzzit 7 36 comments TN Nov 4, 2018
On a first date do you go Dutch (share the bill)?
By paul1967 8 26 comments CA Nov 3, 2018
Marriage and the non believer...
By ghettophilosopher 7 27 comments FL Nov 2, 2018
Helpful tips you learned as an adult?
By LiterateHiker 8 52 comments WA Oct 29, 2018
How many times have you felt this way in life? [] 6 Certain Signs of Being in Love Science-based ways to know if you're in love. Posted Jun 23, 2017 Is this love or is it something else? People talk about being "in"...
By alanalorie 7 6 comments KS Oct 29, 2018
Is This Taboo?
By KitKat1996 4 97 comments MO Oct 29, 2018
Do you consider yourself a good lover to your partner or spouse and why?
By Nardi 7 49 comments UK Oct 25, 2018
POLL Does your partner need to share your beliefs? I think there is no other way around. What do you think?
By Granateo 4 17 comments TX Oct 23, 2018
What's the best response to "why are you so quiet'?
By jafbm 5 84 comments MA Oct 21, 2018
POLL How do you handle negativity regarding your agnostic ideas?
By Bettyann 4 41 comments CA Oct 21, 2018
Believer/Non-believer relationships
By Philosoraptor 4 18 comments CA Oct 20, 2018
POLL When AI and Android tech gets sophisticated enough to mimic your dream partner what will happen to romance?
By paul1967 8 31 comments CA Oct 20, 2018
LINK There Is A Difference Between Dating and Courting |
By WarmFluffy 7 16 comments AL Oct 20, 2018
In recent years I have become obsessed with perfection within my home. I was driving myself crazy with a need to clean and primp. Friends commented because it was so much not “like” me. Where was the OCD-like behavior coming from? I think I was ...
By SukiSue 8 27 comments MA Oct 17, 2018
Do we ever truly get over childhood hurts?
By LiterateHiker 8 74 comments WA Oct 16, 2018
Better Relationship?
By TMWB86 4 38 comments MI Oct 16, 2018
Hey guys! I created an Infidelity Support Group. Please share and/or join! Thanks! ❤️ []
By daitheflu317 6 19 comments FL Oct 15, 2018
Emotional Availability: Where does the "vulnerability" end and the stupidity begin?
By KenChang 7 20 comments WA Oct 14, 2018
K...been dead for a year and a half since my beloved died...have met some woman through that period so a year and a bit has passed .......and have now met my soul mate..she accepts that I am a a musician have long hair and a yes it can ...
By Dragoria 6 26 comments UK Oct 14, 2018
Just wondering, about past experiences. Im on a couple dating sites, and have had several dates with women are church going Christians. My Bio clearly states agnostic, but yet they continue to agree to, even ask for a meet and greet. they say they ...
By malibu64 4 41 comments IA Oct 11, 2018
Would you move for love?
By Wchairgal 4 158 comments NY Oct 10, 2018
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