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Real Intimacy

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships. Frank and explicit discussions about real life topics.

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Posted by Jolanta
This is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.
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Feb 28Feb 28

Posted by GodlessDio
POLLLooking for new Godless friends 👋😁

What do you prefer?

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Feb 28Feb 28

Posted by Jolanta
Ducky, Snookums....
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Real Intimacy
Jan 30Jan 30

Posted by MizJ
Single during the pandemic, a good read.
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Jan 26Jan 26

Posted by Sorcha
This is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.
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Real Intimacy
Dec 17, 2020Dec 2020

Posted by Jolanta
That’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.
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Real Intimacy
Dec 13, 2020Dec 2020

Posted by Kojaksmom
How is everyone dating in the age of the Coronavirus? Are any of you out there actively seeking a new partner?
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Dec 6, 2020Dec 2020

Posted by Shell78
Been with this guy for 3 years. He is 51 and I'm 42. We was happy I thought. Never fought or argued. Suddenly one morning he leaves for work kisses and tells me he loves me then after work he tells me we should split up that he no longer loves me. Is...
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Nov 26, 2020Nov 2020

Posted by MindfulLove
Just by reading the posts of kindred spirits in this group, I am inspired to continue believing in true intimacy; iso many others also possess an awareness of the beauty of true intimacy. One’s disposition with regard to remaining emotionally ...
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Real Intimacy
Nov 10, 2020Nov 2020

Posted by Sonja44
A question to the group: What does "being emotionally available" mean to you?
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Nov 6, 2020Nov 2020

Posted by Sheetal26
We have evolved out of animals so our animal instincts of anger and violence deeply rooted in us and they keep surfacing in extreme situations..
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Real Intimacy
Oct 10, 2020Oct 2020

Posted by Jolanta
Something for real intimacy perhaps.
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Real Intimacy
Sep 29, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Jolanta
Away with silks, away with lawn, I'll have no scenes, or curtains drawn: Give me my mistress as she is, Dressed in her nak'd simplicities: For all my heart , e'en so my eye Is won with flesh, not drapery. Robert Herrick, "Clothes Do But Cheat And ...
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Real Intimacy
Sep 25, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Green_Soldier71
When we are young, we rush into love and screw it all up like a bull in a china-shop. We talk too much but say too little, We don't know when to shut-up and listen We don't cry enough and... We laugh too much to hide our pains and our heartaches, We ...
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Real Intimacy
Sep 23, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Green_Soldier71
Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER? I just got done with 9 years of my life being washed away in one such relationship. My sex-drive is, at its minimum, geared ...
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Real Intimacy
Sep 19, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Cast1es
A crime show has begun showing up on facebook , and to date , it's been about women who have gone missing , and the investigations have shown that the man in her life , has murdered each of them . In some of the cases , the man was having assorted ...
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Real Intimacy
Sep 19, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by EyesThatSmile
Nakedness. This came up in conversation with a friend. Nearly every man I have ever known prefers to be Naked than to be wearing anything. I would like more opinions. Is this primarily a guy thing?
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Real Intimacy
Sep 18, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Kojaksmom
Were you able to remain close friends with exes? According to psychology if you could remain friends with an ex it means you either still love them or never really loved them in the first place. Agree or disagree and why
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Real Intimacy
Aug 29, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by SimplyJaneen
So I've been divorced now for almost 21 months. My ex left for South Korea shortly after getting the divorce papers and everything was finalizee after he left. He's still over there. Here it's me and my two girls. I have a 10 year old and a 14 year ...
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Shared from Love & Relationships
Aug 26, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by resserts
Here's a summary version of what Dan Savage has been saying for years about building and maintaining a strong relationship.
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Shared from Love & Relationships
Aug 24, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by MrsAlwaysRight
ADVICE: I have been seeing a guy for about a year now. Started off with FWB, but we grew closer over the year and both of us developed feelings. He has told me he loves me, but sometimes I am uncertain of our union. He's not a texter, so we don't ...
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Aug 21, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Green_Soldier71
HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH AND HOW SOON IS TOO SOON? I'm feeling a bit 'naked' right now and would like a listening ear and maybe some advice for the future. I am 48 (will be 49 soon), separated, and recently started chatting with a 51 year old divorced ...
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Real Intimacy
Aug 16, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by MarkWD
So I’m backing off of posting much more here. This group and certainly ones unrelated to religion/atheism have mostly been fine. But the whole idea of seeking out a community where people are more like me on that continuum seems like a mistake to...
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Real Intimacy
Aug 16, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by EyesThatSmile
POLLHow many times have you felt like you were in love? (Please don’t respond with statements about how love is different for everyone or that we really don’t know what love is.). At 57 I can say I have been in love 4 times (and also lived with a ...
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Posted by JolantaThis is what women have to put up with and then they want to be intimate while we are still angry because they will not do their share of housework.

Posted by JolantaDucky, Snookums....

Posted by SorchaThis is a guy I was talking to from okcupid. He is totally new to online dating and it shows.

Posted by JolantaThat’s Amore. Some women are just far too shallow.

Posted by JolantaSomething for real intimacy perhaps.

Posted by Green_Soldier71Has anyone here had any experience with (or known someone who has/had) a SEXLESS MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP or a FRIGID PARTNER?

Posted by EyesThatSmileNakedness.

Posted by LetzGetRealMy family has often commented how I should become a "cougar"... as I look pretty good at my age and have a younger mindset than some of my peers, I guess this is there rationale?

Posted by Ann-1980The 4 types of Intimacy to feel sufficient, satisfied & healing in a love relationship.

Posted by Philip21over the top thinking? [agnostic.com]

Posted by DavidRussettI have been a widower for 2 years. I am very lonely. I am really looking for a relationship wth someone compatible with me.

Posted by bobwjrThis is intimacy

Posted by JustLuAnnSapiosexual I am a sapiosexual.

Posted by rsb97080If “true love” really exists, this is part of it (and no, I’m not fat. Merely making a point.)

Posted by Allamandamaybe I should put this in 'Silly' -

Posted by FearlessFly"Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love." :P

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