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Retired November 2017, living in a trailer, want to explore. But still I want a long term relationship. When we click, I may stick in one place, hopefully where you are. I volunteer with the Red Cross in western North Carolina. I have deployed with them to NC, FL, CA, AL, TX, MO. Who knows where next?

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12 Reasons Why it is Hard for Femal Empaths to Find the Right Man. [curiousmindmagazine.com]
BudFrank comments on May 29, 2019:
Been in that kind of friendship. It didn’t make it to a “relationship” because of some of these qualities.
Just not right in the head
BudFrank comments on May 29, 2019:
No, it’s not just you.
Sounds about right
BudFrank comments on May 29, 2019:
I’d be glad to help
Pattern placement!
BudFrank comments on May 29, 2019:
And the problem with that is???
This cross-country trip has been good for me and Bella. I’ve gained confidence that she sees me as...
BudFrank comments on May 29, 2019:
Wonderful!
Has anyone thought about retiring in Costa Rica? I think about it a lot, but can't decide.
BudFrank comments on May 29, 2019:
I have thought of it. Still do occasionally. When do we leave? But, honestly, right now I’m enjoying volunteering with the Red Cross. Maybe I could there too
An Orthodox Jewish organization released a powerful video campaign about sexual abuse that should be...
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
Sigh! So sad.
Good Morning All. I hope everyone is safe and dry this morning. The weather is going extremes - ...
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
I see increasing numbers of disasters. Unfortunately it’s more opportunities for service for me with the Red Cross
Guten Morgen ... right on to today's question: When did you last cry in front of another person? ...
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
Watching the Memorial Day concert on tv Sunday
So blocking the vents with cabbage leaves didn’t work, It would be interesting to know what plan ...
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
Plan B: move
Oh. My. No. God. Look what I found at the bottom of a tub-o-stuff. 1993!
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
Beautiful, then and now!
The world at large
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
So true!
Ahoy there mate...
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
That swimmer must be French!
Hi everybody. I’ve been really silly the last few days. I’m sorry and I hope I didn’t hurt ...
BudFrank comments on May 28, 2019:
I’m glad you have a good reason for positive emotions. There are so many negative reasons to cry in our world today.
After analysis of this group I have found that most over 50s are far better at commentating than ...
BudFrank comments on May 27, 2019:
Good point
Good morning! Here's today's "question:" Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom...
BudFrank comments on May 27, 2019:
Travels
I’ve made it to California! My car has logged 6,330 miles since April 4. It’s much shorter to ...
BudFrank comments on May 27, 2019:
Glad the trip has been good. Enjoy!
I need to go get a fan or something for he illusion of cool. 100+ outside and my A/C struggled ...
BudFrank comments on May 27, 2019:
Charlotte will be in the mid 90s this next week too. All the rain is going to the mid west
Is it a sign of a scammer when one of the frequent questions they ask is what your last meal was, or...
BudFrank comments on May 26, 2019:
Reminds me of the comment that when Facebook went down, we had to go knocking on doors telling our neighbors what we had to eat.
changing times
BudFrank comments on May 26, 2019:
Gotcha. Good one!
Trust me, I'm not happy about it either!
BudFrank comments on May 25, 2019:
Yep, sitting at home reading this, too
"If you ain't country, you ain't shit" Does that imply... That if you ARE Country.... You ARE...
BudFrank comments on May 24, 2019:
Actually in terms of strict logic, it means “if you are shit you are country.” I didn’t say it. I’m just deciphering it in terms of Boolean logic
Facts be factin'.
BudFrank comments on May 24, 2019:
Introverts unite! No, wait! That’s an oxymoron.
2 seasons , winter and
BudFrank comments on May 24, 2019:
Seems about right
Literally any takers. I'm not picky.
BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:
Sure!
I've earned a few of these.
BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:
Yeppers. Most of them I think
A couple of weeks ago I made a post about if anyone had chatted with someone from an online site who...
BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:
It is amazing how far some will go.
One of the things that really annoys me is change! You learn all this computer stuff and they change...
BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:
Job security for those in the computer industry
Good morning! Here's today's loaded question (for me anyway): How do you feel about your ...
BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:
My mother is not emotional. She’s very matter of fact about things. I’ve not been very close to her, but it’s never been abusive, just distant
Update for those of you who had advice about following up and possibly meeting the guy with the ...
BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:
That’s one reason I post a full length picture of myself on my profile, for full disclosure purposes. I’m suspicious if a woman has no pictures, or just head shots, that she’s not comfortable with her body
I’ve been grappling with this for some time. Trying to “let go” and then doing a number on ...
BudFrank comments on May 23, 2019:
I’ve been in that situation before. I’ve had trouble letting go of a person I was in a relationship with. It’s very hard.
LMFAO!!!! Michael Avenatti has been charged with stealing from his former client, Stormy Daniels...
BudFrank comments on May 22, 2019:
Oooooh kaaaayy! Funny! πŸ˜†πŸ˜œ
It's hump day, that should count for something.
BudFrank comments on May 22, 2019:
And what’s wrong with wine before noon?
I went out with a man I met from another site Sunday. It was interesting, but my bullshit meter was ...
BudFrank comments on May 22, 2019:
Moving right along.... that’s one of the frustrating things of online dating. You have to be ready to see the vast majority of people you meet as non-starters for relationships. A site like this is a little better because at least you have the good possibility of compatible world views. And it’s not all about dating. On another note, my life has had a lot of improbable and amazing things happen, and it would be easy to blow me off if I told my story.
Sounds perfectly reasonable
BudFrank comments on May 22, 2019:
What could go wrong? Reminds me of the post in the attached picture.
Good morning! Here's today's question: How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your ...
BudFrank comments on May 22, 2019:
My parents were both emotionally unavailable. I was pretty introverted. I was also smaller than my peers so not athletic. I was unhappy a lot. And when I got married, my wife didn’t accept me well, so I accepted that unhappiness as “normal”. It was years before I broke loose
real though...
BudFrank comments on May 22, 2019:
I can’t figure the word cat in there anywhere that makes sense or would be worth doing
Greetings from Houston! I'm happy to report that I am much improved after the two fender benders ...
BudFrank comments on May 21, 2019:
So glad you’re better
The other ladies in my office were talking about strange and, as they put it, stupid names the other...
BudFrank comments on May 20, 2019:
When we lived in Africa there was a boy named Modess
The other ladies in my office were talking about strange and, as they put it, stupid names the other...
BudFrank comments on May 20, 2019:
ESPN was in a movie Blended. It was Adam Sandler’s daughter.
Going under the knife at 0600 tomorrow. Actually, under the knife, bone saw, and Dremel tool. ...
BudFrank comments on May 19, 2019:
Hope it goes well. I’ve had some of that was well as a knee replacement and I’m doing better.
I must be the luckiest dude in America, redheaded sisters! Never together though, that's where they ...
BudFrank comments on May 19, 2019:
I guess you can keep them apart by the ring through the right nipple, if there’s ever any question.
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere.And sometimes in the middle of nowhere you find...
BudFrank comments on May 19, 2019:
A good state of mind.
Apocalypse maybe?
BudFrank comments on May 19, 2019:
Same as when Facebook was down
A man has been found dead surrounded by chick peas, lemon and garlic. Police are treating it as ...
BudFrank comments on May 19, 2019:
A man was found dead in a bathtub of milk. Police are considering it the work of a cereal killer
Most old folk are like this at some stage, eventually it’s every day, usually at night when you ...
BudFrank comments on May 19, 2019:
I resemble that remark
The afternoon was wonderful, good food, some shopping, a walk in the rain and then a nice long nap. ...
BudFrank comments on May 19, 2019:
My kids have told me the best thing I did for them was take them to live overseas. It does change your viewpoint on life.
I've got to remember this.
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
It’s a difficult lesson to learn sometimes
Mabel is a smart cookie
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
Of course! So polite!!!
I enjoy being useful whenever possible.
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
I try to be useful in many ways with my tongue.
Ready to burn some calories?
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
Oh yeah! I need a workout.
I don't know if this is interesting to the group - but what the heck. After 6 months of admin, ...
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
You’re doing good work.
Well how about we post sexy classy pix of ourselves... is this against the group's policy.. i like ...
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
It’s not my fault if it burns your eyes
@OpposingOpposum, @mistymoon77, @altschmerz and @glennlab have all agreed to join our team of ...
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
D’accord
So far anyway, but the weekend is just starting..
BudFrank comments on May 18, 2019:
Me neither, so far!
Finally, some respect for our Athiest Rituals....
BudFrank comments on May 17, 2019:
Punctuation is important.
Good Morning Everybody.! Raining today - looks like its an inside day for me. My allergies acting up...
BudFrank comments on May 17, 2019:
Deployed still with the Red Cross in Texas. I’ve been here a week so I get a day off starting this afternoon. Might go see a movie. It depends on what I feel like. I might just sit and read too
Getting excited, in less than 24 hours I’ll be on my way to Costa Rica! I’ve wanted to visit ...
BudFrank comments on May 17, 2019:
Have a great trip!!
Well, my day started out by slipping in a patch of mud and having to go back in the house and change...
BudFrank comments on May 17, 2019:
Us? Behave? Lol Have a great weekend.
I just got home from the hospital a little while ago... Everything is fine with baby... Apparently...
BudFrank comments on May 17, 2019:
Glad you’re ok. A lot of us were worried about you
So I have questions for those who are online. Thinking back over conversations I have had let me ask...
BudFrank comments on May 16, 2019:
Haven’t had that, and wouldn’t answer. Would say it’s tmi and then I would block them.
Ok. I have a concern. I'm not really used to dating a few different men at one time. However, I'm ...
BudFrank comments on May 16, 2019:
I have a book about it. It’s titled Conscious Dating. They recommend what you’re doing, calling it casual dating. The book says you don’t want to be considered “in a relationship” with somebody you’re just getting to know and decide about and miss out on someone else who is a better match to you. When you get to the point you want to formalize it with one person, you should make that as a conscious step between you two and then you would need to inform anyone else you’ve been seeing
Something not right... Frankie taking me to the hospital... I'm so frightened...
BudFrank comments on May 16, 2019:
Hope it’s ok. Hugs! πŸ€— do let us know how it goes.
As I'm approaching 50 (I joined early) I am just about getting over my midlife crisis. The crisis I ...
BudFrank comments on May 16, 2019:
Learning is the important thing, and also that you’re still alive. You made it!
Hate it when that happens
BudFrank comments on May 16, 2019:
Yeah. I lost the train of thought too
A celebratory meme( ??) Anyway it made me laugh. Good thing I'm agnostic or I'd be going straight to...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
I wonder how and why. And, congratulations. πŸŽˆπŸŽŠπŸŽ‰πŸΎ
What the frog is going on here?
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
Somebody wants $200 for that? Is that American dollars?
Reposting the answer to notion indicated in my previous controversial post. Please read to its ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
I think you have a good concept, but the terminology needs polishing up. The army/soldier thing has some negative connotations that I don’t think you mean.
Are you up for any of these things? What are your faves? Mine are talking to animals, obscure pop ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
Back rubs and chocolate are my faves
Years ago, I notIced a connection with women when young were (looking for the right words here ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
“Well, bless her heart”, as they say down here in the south. Very passive aggressive
Just saw where a millionaire in Utah is advertising for a wife . It starts with an on line ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
Nope! πŸ‘Ž
Good morning! Immediately to today's question: What is your most terrible memory? The ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
When my ex-wife confided in a friend of mine had Lorena bobbitt thoughts. We were still together then but it didn’t last after that.
Should I get better pictures? I don't like having my picture taken and it shows. Men who meet me ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
I think your pictures are good here. It’s nice to have a full body view to get an idea of the person. That’s not just about sex. It is also about the level of activity we can expect together.
Here is question. When browsing online dating profiles, do you tend to skip past the ones that ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
In okCupid if they say religion is very important it’s an immediate red flag. Some say they’re religious, even Christian, but they’re more spiritual and not conservative. If they can accept me I will consider it.
Been riding the waves of emotions the last few days, feeling strong again and so I made myself an ...
BudFrank comments on May 15, 2019:
Great idea. I’ll have to think about what I need
Bought a necklace to represent my journey across the country. Moonstone and stars, Moab, Utah
BudFrank comments on May 14, 2019:
Nice! It will be a good reminder of your trip
Yup. Silence is suspicious
BudFrank comments on May 14, 2019:
I remember the days. Now that I’m a grandparent I can just smile.
Do you feel the same way?
BudFrank comments on May 14, 2019:
Absotively! Sending a hug! πŸ€—
No proof that I am in the upper half.😫
BudFrank comments on May 14, 2019:
I think being on this site is a good indicator you’re in the upper half
I got a phone call Saturday night, and I let it go to voicemail because I was too out of it to go ...
BudFrank comments on May 13, 2019:
Yes, thank you for sharing. I understand about wondering if you’ve made the right decision on something, many times. Sending a hug! πŸ€—
Happy Monday! The sun is out, there was a nice, cool breeze this morning, and I'm working from home ...
BudFrank comments on May 13, 2019:
Good news mostly. Do celebrate the steps in the right direction.
GOOD NEWS!!!!! - For those friends who have been following my nh house drama, the lockout by the ...
BudFrank comments on May 13, 2019:
Yay! Glad it went well
Beware of...
BudFrank comments on May 13, 2019:
And don’t forget Beware of Doug
Happy Mother’s Day!
BudFrank comments on May 12, 2019:
So THAT’S where almond milk comes from!
LOOKING FOR ADVICE I've been approached online a few times recently to watch different women's web ...
BudFrank comments on May 12, 2019:
I never go to those. They always want a credit card and I won’t give it.
That be cats.
BudFrank comments on May 12, 2019:
Yep. That sounds like a number of cats I have known
My area (MS Gulf Coast) got 13 inches of rain Saturday, and just a few miles north of the coast, ...
BudFrank comments on May 12, 2019:
Rain in Houston wasn't too bad yesterday and it’s sunny today.
Almost on a daily basis u get bs text like this. Any normal person would know that this is in no way...
BudFrank comments on May 12, 2019:
So many Red flags !!!
The Committed Agnostic’s creed: Desiderata (first recorded around 1692)
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Good poem. It’s been a while since I read it
The chance to really start over. But should I take it? What would you do? Hey guys, I've been ...
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
I’m tempted to say go with the job, but there are so many variables it’s hard to know. It depends on how much you count on your family and friends locallynfor support. Maybe you could look for a local job for a specific time period then take the other. Setting a time limit keeps you from dragging things out with no resolution.
I’m HOME! Thanks for the well wishes! You guys are the best❀️
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Glad you’re home. Hospital is a dangerous place for sick people to be. Lotta germs running around there
Meet Tracey Crouch, the UK's first Minister of Loneliness, appointed by Prime Minister Theresa May ...
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Loneliness is real, but I don’t know hat it warrants a government ministry. Just sayin’
Hi there. Ive left this site twice because I wanted to spend less time online and more time ...
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Welcome back, Laura. I hope the fellowship is good for you here.
Happy Saturday Everyone! I've been wandering a few days but I'm not lost. I know my way home and ...
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Hope it’s really, finally over soon. Glad you’re having a good day.
Ya'll. I need a pep talk. Does anyone else find online dating demoralizing? I'm feeling like I'm ...
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Yes, online dating is a pain, frustrating, demoralizing. It’s so hard to really find a good fit. So many red flags, starting with politics and religion. Hang in there!
And books and coffee and an ashtray
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Yeppers.
Just joined this group. I do volunteer within my community as a Citizen Deputy for the Sheriff ...
BudFrank comments on May 11, 2019:
Congratulations!
I haven't seen one of these in years.
BudFrank comments on May 10, 2019:
You know a lot of university of Georgia students (substitute aggies or Clemson students or whatever group you like to hate) were injured when they moved that control to the turn signal switch. They kept getting their feet caught in the steering wheel.
I attended two sessions of yoga today, but my left leg is going crazy! I suspect there is a pinched ...
BudFrank comments on May 10, 2019:
Where are you in the Houston area? I’m at the Red Cross office working a couple of weeks
Hi everyone! I'm back from NH after a lot of drama and heartache. Thank something my good friend ...
BudFrank comments on May 10, 2019:
Hugs! I know it’s was tough. Hope you have wisdom for the future

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