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This is the current male love of my life, he's 8 months old and soon will call me Grammy.
Humanist, Agnostic, Skeptic, Atheist, Secularist, Freethinker
Open to meeting men

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How irrational is society's pretense that many things like masturbation, menstruation and coitus ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
When my girls were age 7 I probably had not talked to them about menstruation. But then again, I talked and still talk about anything and everything so they might have had a clue. But "the talk" no. I did have tampons and pads around, and they'd snoop in my bathroom often enough. Hmmmm, I might ask my girls about this next time we're together. The youngest had to have had a clue, given when she was 7 her older sister was 14. You are right that we don't talk openly about menstruation, however, we also don't talk about urine or feces either. Everyone knows we do it, it just isn't discussed. Same as for masturbation and/or coitus, I assume everyone does and it's no big deal to me either way.
Resist!...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
For sure!! I think the recent election and turmoil have activated younger people like never before.
Tips for moving out of state
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
I have moved 23 times in my life, 21 of the moves as an adult. Unless your move is paid for by someone else, you have to make some choices. Take only the stuff you cannot replace or absolutely need. If you can drive there, keep the car. To make friend check out meet up groups. For a job, start looking now, start polishing the resume now. Read Askamanager.org for resume and job search advice. As to what you should know, you have local area experts that you're moving in with, ask them. Have fun! It is a new adventure.
What do you do for a living?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
I am a claims examiner for Short Term Disability. The fun part is when I say I work STD claims I get funny looks. So I deal with people who have had a close encounter with the medical profession and now I get to tell them whether or not they can get 60% or so of their basic weekly income. I have a guy on disability now how had a chain saw kick back and he took a good gash out of his foot. I've had a few claimants pass on. The worst part of the job is writing denial letters, although sometimes I get some satisfaction out of it. Sometimes it is talking to the claimants, people can be so rude. I told a woman this week if she continued to talk over me I'd hang up. I'm responsible for about 100 active claims, so we're busy! I don't touch every claim every day, but some days my phone does not stop ringing.
Have you ever pissed off your neighbors from being too loud?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
Not in the last 5 or 10 years, or possibly longer. I think my neighbors aren't even sure I'm here.
You can buy camel toe underwear...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
Not for me, ever.
How are you handling your Facebook page?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
I don't do anything differently on FB. I post what I like and let the chips fall where they may. I lost a few "friends" over my political postings, I have no idea if I have lost any over religion. I am friends with only one coworker, and a few former coworkers and lots of family. I'd say my political postings are drawing the most ire. I have a cousin's son who is a republifuck gun lover, we clash on occasion. I either delete his comments or ignore. The family either ignores me or agrees with me. I yam what I yam and don't give a damn what anyone thinks.
Two recent experiences reminds me of what we always know but easily forget. A doctor acquaintance ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
My mom died at 45 of ovarian cancer. I have considered anything past 45 to be an unexpected gift. My double cousin died at 59 of glioblastoma. She was 5 years older than I was. (double cousin: her mom and my mom were sisters, her dad and my dad were brothers) Another two first cousins have passed before age 60. And then I work in Short Term disability claims. One of my claimants is out not working due to grief. Her life partner was a pedestrian hit by a car, he was in his early 30s, lingered for 6 weeks in the ICU. If you knew today would be your last day, what would you do differently? How do you know today won't be your last day? Live every day like your last.
Da Cheeto
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
LOL, I almost posted that last night, but opted to go to bed instead. Thanks for covering for me!
Here's one sentence I thought I would never say, " The President is being sued by a pornstar" I ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 8, 2018:
We are living under the ancient Chinese curse: May you live in interesting times. I don't know about you, but I'd kinda like to be bored to death for a while.
How much sleep do you get?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 7, 2018:
I push the envelope way too often between this site, FB, my books, crafts, and kitties. I was doing good for a while, but then this site became my addiction. And then there is my insomnia. Once in a while I will get 8 hours or more. Ain't gonna happen tonight. Ah heck, I can sleep when I'm dead, which may be sooner than later....
"I need to run a self-diagnostic. I do not believe I am operating within established parameters."
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 7, 2018:
LOL!
TIME TO - FROM facebook
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 7, 2018:
LOL
Anyone remember mIchael flynn?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 7, 2018:
Karma is such a bitch!
Minimalism, environmentalism, consumerism, transcendentalism, Platonist, naturalist, romanticist or ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 7, 2018:
I'm trending towards miminalism and environmentalism, I'm not sure what a romanticist is.
My Philosophy about life is that we should be journey oriented and not goal oriented. For example, a...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 7, 2018:
It helps that I'v never really had a "goal" aside from making sure my kids grew up to be reasonably efficient and productive adults. That goal was exceeded. Now I'm just trying to hang aound with style, panache, and grace until I can retire. Or trying to not get fired until I can retire so I can keep health benefits. Whichever works. I've never had a good answer to the "where do you see yourself in X years" question. Life take too many twists and turns. There's still too much I don't know, and my damn crystal ball cracked before I got it out of the box.
Is he just not into me?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 7, 2018:
What do you have to lose by sending a message and asking how he is, suggesting another date? What is the worst that could happen? He may have ghosted you, he may be shy. How much do you want to know?
How close are you to your animal protien? Did you raise the animal? Did you kill the animal? Did...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I eat less meat based protein and more vegetable based protein. I don't have the capabilities or facilities to raise my own animals or butcher them.
Hyde Hk jf Edit: yep, that was me. Forgot to delete this post when was trying to debug some ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
Lovely, I have no idea.
Honesty
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I am in Nebraska a very conservative state. I haven't had anyone make an issue of relgion and as I am not the most social of people it hasn't been an issue. I don't talk religion at work, off work I socialize with family and friends from my Humanist meet up group.
Kentucky Governor Calls Kim Davis An Inspiration ‘To The Children Of America’
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
That makes me just want to cough up my lunch and dinner, what an awful, awful woman.
Howard Zinn was a game changer for me understanding history. Anyone else think that his books should...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
My kids did read some of his books in high school, good little liberal atheists that they are. They read People History before I did, about 15 years before I did.
Gardening
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I have two 4X4 raised beds, and pots on my deck. I have grown lots of tomatoes. I grow a varieety of herbs, and other vegetables as it strikes my fancy. We'll see what gets planted after I hit the garden centers.
Stormy Daniels sues President Trump over alleged affair and 'hus - CBS46 News
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
EWWWWW! I may never fall asleep again.
Wondering?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I want a man to share responsibility for taking care of what needs to be taken care of, and I have really relaxed standards. I shouldn't have to be the traffic cop or the director. It isn't rocket science that when the dishwasher is full it should be run, and when the dishes are clean they should be put away. When you make a mess clean it up. And if you do something around the home, do you need a standing ovation? Do you want to get a woman excited? Listen to her not to answer but to understand, treat her with respect, put her needs equal to your own.
Describe a (nonsexual) hobby/activity that you love to do, and why you love doing it. For ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I am a stitcher. I sew, crochet, knit, cross stitch, and I've done many other projects involving needle and thread. I always have a project or twenty in progress. I finish some from time to time, although since finding Agnostic.com my productivity is diminishing.
If we are all supposedly created in God's image, wouldn't that mean God is everyone, every race, ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
Good point!
DoggIe humor
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
LOL! Good doggies!
Do you own any exercise equipment or props? If so, do you use them consistently? I have a yoga belt,...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I have a Wii, the original Wii with Wii Fit one and two and some other packages. I have a Fitbit Blaze. I have a stepper device. I have an exercise ball that is only partially deflated. I have yoga mat, blocks, bands. And I have 100# or so of free weights.
Economists warn Trump's policies will start a 1930s-era trade war | Public Radio International
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I am having one of those days where my desire to stay well informed is fighting with my anxiety load.
Would you choose Option 1, Option 2 or Option 3?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
I don't like extremes, I like to stay in the middle. I don't wanna lead, but I don't want to lag.
31% of Americans believe Donald would've run into the school unarmed 69% wished he had
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
Yep, I would have given him a shove in the right direction.
Interesting man, Georges Nader. He's been cooperating with Mueller for a few months. And the shoes...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
Interesting, the deeper it gets the really deeper it gets.
Found this evening while GISing "surprised face". My only critique being the image better served on ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 6, 2018:
OMG, how to frighten small children!
Would you date someone who was overweight?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 5, 2018:
My criteria is breathing and continent. And intelligent, kind, tolerant, liberal, etc. Weight is not an issue. I'm a big gal myself, been bigger, been slimmer. Food is a tough issue, I'm not going to penalize someone for having that kind of issue when I deal with it as well.
Newt Gingirch is claiming that athiests pose a bigger threat to American than does ISIS. What a ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 5, 2018:
I saw that, almost snorted my coffee. He's a twat and a half.
Are vitamins good for you? How do you know?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 5, 2018:
Sometimes they just give you expensive pee, but if you have a deficiency or don't eat well, vitamins might be necessary. I don't get much sunlight, and I've been Vitamin D deficient before. So I take a Vit D supplement becasue seriously the effects of that deficiency did not help my life at all. I take a B vitamin supplement, it helps with mood. I take a few others. Maybe I take too many, but I'm finally in a better place healthwise and I'm going to be really careful about changing things.
Did you post a "hello" in General & Hellos when you first joined this site?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 5, 2018:
You need an "I don't really remember" option, because I don't remember.
I hear a lot of people on this site saying how lonely they are how they wish they could find ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 5, 2018:
Distance is a bitch. I will never relocate, and most men I'm interested in are the same way.
This makes me giggle. hehehe. ^_^
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 5, 2018:
Good picture for a Monday morning! Thanks!
Eric Bolling Shares Heartbreaking Story About His Son's Overdose
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
This is so sad, frightening, and horrifying. Every parent's worst nightmare.
I am really down about my new job. It's harder than anything I've ever had to learn ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Please read the blog AskAManager.org. She is an HR person who answers questions like yours. You can even email her and she will give you advice. She talks about office culture and politics, do you fit your job, good management, cover letters, resumes, interviewing. Also consider talking to your manager. S/he needs to know you are struggling. Maybe s/he will have suggestions of how to do it better. I have struggled with my job, though not nearly as high level as yours. My manager has been awesome at getting extra training for me. My company has a great culture, great managers, lots of coaching.
Do you date traditionally?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I think we need a definition of **Traditionally**
Best supporting actor?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Like watching a train wreck.
Here's this
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Ohhhh yeah, that's me.
I just reached Level 8 !!! Only 150,000 points 'til the next level!! LOL
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Congratulations!! I reached 8 about 2 days before you. We're going to wallow here for a while, it is a long slog to 9.
What's a strange food habit you have?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I will not eat peas, unless they are well hidden. I will eat split pea soup. I'm not fond of lima beans either.
Do you feel as lonely as I do?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Yeah, I'm sorry. There are no Humanists groups in your area. Doesn't mean there aren't other atheists/agnostics/humanists. Just aren't under the umbrella of the American Humanists Association.
Do you feel as lonely as I do?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Check to see if there is a Humanist Association in your area. I found my local group through Meetup.com. And sweetie, I don't want to sound condescending, I have kids older than you. You've got so much time ahead of you to find someone. It's too early to panic. Work on being the best you that you can be, and you'll find someone. And if you don't you'll be a great guy who is single. There are worse things to be, trust me.
Do you bring lunch to work or eat out? I brought lunch when I was raising kids, but later I ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I usually make a casserole on weekend and take it to work during the week. I like to eat cheap and healty. During the summers I make a salad, lots of fresh tomatoes right out of my garden. I
Have you ever been on a strict diet? Were you able to make any good eating habits stick long-term? I...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I have been on several very strict diets; liquid fasting and Atkins. I will not do it again. I do best when I reduce sugars and eat less meat, more veggies and drink lots of water. Problem being I'm a stress eater, my job is uber stressful and the office is full of chocolate and other goodies. They do feed us well, just not healthy.
Would You keep dating someone who felt it was necessary to keep you a secret from their kids?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
How long has it been and how old are the kids? If the kids are elementary aged I wouldn't be in a hurry to introduce anyone to them until I was pretty sure it was going to be long term. My kids are adults and I'd probably introduce a steady guy after a couple of months. Also, how long has she been divorced from the father of the children? It the home life pretty stable for the kids? Genders of the kids? Seriously, I respect a woman who puts her kids first, she's a good mom. And when she does introduce you to the kids it means you've made the cut, honor that. For moms, our kids are our biggest area of vulnerability. I will protect my kids with my life if I need to.
Bucket list of places to visit: 1. Alaska 2. Japan 3. Scandinavia
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
In no specific order Banf, Winipeg, Quebec, Alaska, Ecuador, Italy, Scotland, Ireland, Norway, Sweden, Iceland, Greenland. I want to go back to Japan, Germany, England, Wales, Belgium, Switzerland, France. British Columbia. Current plan is to to go Winnipeg this fall. I can drive there which is a plus. I will take a week off of work and go. I have the passport, want to actually use it before it expires.
One of my latest...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Ahhhh, much better and very good. Absolutely tooo true!
Statements or Questions
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I dunno, my bank statement makes me cry sometimes so wanna avoid that.
The Beatles - A Day In The Life - YouTube
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Love it!
Hotel California Solo - The Eagles - Acoustic Guitar Cover - YouTube
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
You do know the way to a Hippie Chick's heart.
Name one thing you should never do naked.
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Welding
Who is good enough ( my Sunday morning rant)
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Good for you, but I've been around the block often enough to know that I am not going to have any respect for a Trump supporter, and if you haven't read a book since HS we aren't going to have much to talk about. I like what I like, you like what you like, and what works for you won't likely work for me. Thanks for your input and welcome to the site. And we share a birthday, but I've had a few more than you!
Don't take life too serious. Find something to laugh about daily!
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
LOL, nice. My ass isn't the only thing that is cracked.
“What Orwell feared were those who would ban books. What Huxley feared was that there would be no ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I think we are drowning in information and it is difficult to discern the truth. I don't see that books are being banned, but I do see that peopel are so apathetic that they aren't reading. So looks like Huxley may be right.
One of my latest...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Did you mean to add something?
You tell me
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Sad, so very tragically sad.
Humanistic Antitheism?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I'm not offended. I have offended a few folks in my real life by suggesting their church should be taxed. My kids asked me not to discuss that around their dad anymore, poor baby.
Fact, Fiction or Both
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I have read lots of articles like this and a few years ago decided to eat as close to how food comes from nature as possible. I eat less meats, I eat more veggies. I eat organic when I can. I grow some of what I eat. I think you need to be an educated consumer. Humans don't need to drink cows milk.
Your version of a Healthy Relationship?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I need someone who is independent enough not to have to be glued to my hip, but who also likes/wants to spend some time with me.
Addicts. Let me ask you guys about addicts. Drug addicts in particular. How do you view them? Do...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I have read that there is pain behind addiction. If you treat the pain you stand a better chance of curing the addiction. What I do know is other countries are much better at treating substance abuse than the US is, but what else is new. What I also know is addiction is a disease, it is not a judgement of anyone's self control or worth. It is in my mind a type of cancer that is damn hard to cure because relapses are like a metastasize of the disease. It is a disease that causes people to break laws from time to time, but it does not make them criminals
When traveling what are your thoughts on visiting religious sites?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
Religion and history are pretty entertwined. I will visit "religious" sites for their historical significance if I have an interest in the history and it isn't going out of my way.
I've started watching Neil deGrasse Tyson's "Cosmos" on Netflix. I've seen the old Carl Sagan show ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
I loved Cosmos, and I think Neil deGrasse Tyson is the epitome of hot males so I have watched many of his programs. The programs are fascinating and then there is Neil. What is not to like.
So this should be fun... Who would care to educate a newbie on the proper etiquette and best ways to...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Be kind. Join in discussions that you are interested in and have something to add to. Don't be afraid to post items that catch your interest. It's easy, it's interesting. It's a great group of people, great conversations. And welcome fellow Nebraskan!!
Billy Graham was a pernicious influence on the White House | New York Post
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Not just on the WH, on the US as a whole.
I just can't be out of wine! Lol
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I am that way with chocolate.
Can I just stay at this amount of points? 666
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
The trouble is, you can't just coast. Change is unavoidable.
What's better: renting or owning a home?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I chose ownership, but it isn't always a picnic. I had to put in a new AC in July 2016 and probably didn't make the best decision. And now my roof is leaking. My Son In Law is in construction and when the new roof was put on his dad was my contractor. Dad later decamped and left SIL with a mess. But SIL took a look at the roof today and can't figure out why it is leaking. On the other hand the mortgage is less than renting similar space or an apartment. I have an attached garage. I have a garden. I don't have people coming in while I am gone and leaving my door unlocked. I don't have sumo wrestling or smokers upstairs. My SIL is good about doing repairs for me. I've painted it the way I want it done. If I put holes in the walls it is my business. In the long run, ownership is better for me. I have space to do what I want to do. I'm thinking as I get closer to retirement I might downsize, not sure, but I have a few years.
FedX or UPS?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
FED EX has ties to the NRA. Nuff said.
[facebook.com]
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Love the poster aspect of it!
Are most agnostics intelligent and left-leaning?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I have encountered all types on this site, we cover the whole spectrum. United by lack of belief in a deity.
I went antiquing today! Yay!
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Way cool!! I used to go to lots of Estate sales. Amazing what people will keep.
What does it mean when someone says 'I don't want a commitment'?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
It means you're OK (in their mind) but you're probably not "the one" and they want to be able to look around some more.
What's in your garden?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I am so excited to see green things starting to appear in my yard. Every summer for the past 3 or 4 years I have grown tomatoes. There is nothing so sublime as a tomato fresh off the vine. They taste like sunshine.
OK. I’ve been thinking (STOP the laughter, I have!). Everyone knows the John 3:16 verse. I ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Yes, god is a total myscoginistic sadomasochistic bastard.
How do you express hope or emphathy to someone who is dealing with a terminal desase? I am not ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I just let them know I wish for them the best outcome possible. That means something different to everyone.
Why is it so important to break someone else's faith?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I am happy to leave folks to their delusions as long as they're not trying to sell it to me.
When looking for a significant other, there are lots of easy to detect deal-breakers like smoking, ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Severe depression. If your depression issues are so bad you can't work I'm thinking you probaby shouldn't be dating either. And with those depression issues were issues with Mama. My doctor called him a hot mess,and she told me he wasn't helping my hot mess either. She was right.
What's your favorite horror film?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I loathe horror films. My imagination is good enough that I don't need to add fuel to my anxieties. Nope, never, ever,ever.
Level 10 means...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
It means you've dedicated lots of time and opinions to this site. I just hit level 8. I'm going to be level 8 for a very long time.
What dating sites have you tried and did you make any relationships or friendships from it?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I have been on Mingle, POF, OKC, Elite Singles, Zoosk, EHarmony, and Match. I don't like paying money. I have tried a few local sites that cost dearly and did not get any better results. I've had one friend come out of it, or one person who still has my number who I haven't blocked.
I keep hearing that praying is a wonderful thing. Praying for this or that to happen; praying for ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I remember being told that prayer doens't necessarily change things, but that prayer changes you. And I quickly disproved that be praying that god would change my heart and make me content with my now ex husband. Never let it be said I didn't try. I've also heard that prayer is not unlike mediatation which is very healthy and relaxing. I just skip the prayer part and go directly to meditation. And I'm pretty sure those blathering about thoughts and prayers are neihter thinking or praying. I'm positive they're not thinking, I don't care if they are praying.
Interviews are stressful, what are some of the best (worst?) interview questions you’ve had (to ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
If you are job searching, wondering if your office/work environment is "normal" or needing advice on resumes or cover letters, please check out the blog AskAManager.org. Great, great, great advice and often funny too. She has articles just like that. https://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2013/04/15/what-are-the-worst-questions-job-interviewers-ask http://www.askamanager.org/2009/07/stupid-interview-questions-and-win-free.html What kind of tree would you be? Seriously who asks that?
I am at home recovering from surgery. My daughter took me in for a week to help me recover. It was ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I wish you a speedy recovery and WTG for your daughter! And yes, it is so amazing when our children become compassionate, competent adults. Pat yourself on the back for having been a good parent and turning out a good kid.
For those of you that are thinking of extra income with Uber/Lyft
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Good luck to you!
The Most Detailed Map of the Universe to Date - YouTube
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Wow, beautiful and amazing.
Would you want to know at a very early age when you would die?
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I've always felt like you should live as if it were your last day, because how do you know it won't be? There are no gurarantees. If I die today I have no unfinished business of any real consequence. Those that are important to me know I love them. My manager is goign to miss me, as will the team because we're short handed as it is. I just hope someone misses me in time for the kids to come in a rescue the kitties. So, no, I don't want to know when I am going to die. Whenever it comes, I'm as ready as I'm going to be.
Telling an atheist "I'll pray for you" is just as offensive as telling a Christian "I'll think ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I like that, will have to remember it.
I am in back in the dating world. I have realized that I cannot date someone who is more than ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I am pretty straightforward about it. I'm not a believer, and I only go to church when one of my offspring specifically requests my presence. When I was MOB (mother of the bride) I went to church, I even read scripture. I let them know that I will not have them tell me they are praying for me or otherwise trying to convert me.
Just some photos I have made.
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Way cool!!
I couldn't agree more. Hard to find. So many people come into it thinking the complete opposite of ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
My second marriage ended because he was only contributing financially, he did not give emotional support, or companionship, and was happy to abdicate most of the parenting. Our kids thought we should have divorced years earlier.
"Never ask a woman her age" and other stupid rules. Who comes up with this nonsense? It is a ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Some women get uptight about their age. Not me, I freakin feel every year and I own it proudly. Of course my view is skewed a tad, my mom died at 45, and I am thrilled to have lived past that. Now the rule of not asking a woman if she is pregnant unless you are seeing the baby exit her body is a good rule. Trust me on that one. Stupid gender rules that annoy me. 1. Boys will be boys. No, any child will act like a little shit if they have not been raised right. 2. Men/boys should not show emotion. That is so hugely unhealthy for so many young men. 3. Men should man up or grow a pair. That goes with above. And really you want tough. Balls are delicate and tender. A vagina can take a pounding AND push a baby out. How totally tough and awesome is that! 4. Here is a tough one, insults to women are that they are bitches, witches, frigid, ugly, etc. Insults to men is that they are a son of a bitch which insults his mother, or that he is a bastard which again insults his mother. 5. That my clothing could 'distract' a male or makes a man want to rape/hurt me. Seriously, No. Again, we need to teach men/boys better. 6. I was told to dumb down to attract a boyfriend. I could go on but I do have a life, or want to pretend so anyway.
"Oh my god!", "go to hell!", "Jesus Christ!", "soulmate" and other phrases featuring religious ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
I try to keep my language pretty clean because I am on the phone a good deal of the day and don't need anyone tattling to my manager about my potty mouth. And I have a granddaughter that will start talking soon. I use Jeebus Christopher and OMG frequently. I haven't told anyone to go to hell in many years and my response when told to go there is that I've already been there and got kicked out. I can be creative, succinct, and close to rude without being vulgar. I like to be creative rather than vulgar. I am not sure soul is an entirely religous construct. From Wikipedia: Greek philosophers, such as Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle, understood that the soul must have a logical faculty, the exercise of which was the most divine of human actions. At his defense trial, Socrates even summarized his teaching as nothing other than an exhortation for his fellow Athenians to excel in matters of the psyche since all bodily goods are dependent on such excellence. Would you prefer psychemate? With my luck I'll find a psychomate and we will be infamous.
That’s the problem with indoctrination—the whole point of ....[religious] .... education is to ...
HippieChick58 comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Pastors call it motivation, kinda like sales managers.

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