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Honesty. Do people here regard themselves as honest. To me honesty means revealing the truth about ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 24, 2018:
For the last few years I have been working at getting as close to complete honesty as I can. I'm at 58.7 percent now.
Hey all, I am new to this site. I never knew there were sites for those of us who are not the 95% ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 24, 2018:
Welcome
ee's muh birt'deh, beeches!
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 24, 2018:
Excellente
What is an odd smell that you would admit to enjoying? I like the scent of Vicks vapo rub, my ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 23, 2018:
Freshly laid tar on the road
Do you think being on a site like this, with constant validation on a specific topic, can lead to ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 23, 2018:
Yes. I noticed sometime back online Atheist and Agnostic sites increased, validated, my own beliefs in regards to religion.
Dating the religious. So I met and found myself attracted to a woman recently. I haven't directly...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 23, 2018:
My first impulse was to tell you to get out of it, but then I remembered it is me I know and not you
What makes a relationship work
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 23, 2018:
Only seeing each other once a week or less. Absences makes the heart grow stronger.
Do you embrace simplicity in your life? I have reduced much of what I own and I don't buy much. But,...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 23, 2018:
After my divorce and going through bankruptcy I decided to live light and never use credit again. Other than my car I have stuck to it. I have very few material needs. If only my children would buy into that concept.
Anyone driving on I-35 next week? I'm going to be hitch hiking from Iowa to Texas and then to ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Stay warm
How would you tell a guy that his fly is open in a party/public?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Here in Northern Wisconsin we say, "Buddy, your barn door's open."
If You Are Wondering What That Means, This List is For You
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
They forgot ammosexual
After Mass Shooting, FL House Votes to Put “In God We Trust” Signs in Schools – Friendly ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Yah well if there is a God, God sure as hell has not prevented school shootings, so why should we trust this God?
Do you guys have bed and breakfast or guest house.Well a gay couple booked a room for the weekend ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Is that legal?
Why
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
I didn't know they were
What's "contagious?"
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Love and hate
Hi. I'm new. Soon I'll be 59 hrs old and I really feel like connecting to others with the same ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Welcome. This site has a lot of discussions so it should work for you
I don't know if I fit in here. I grew up going to church but now question everything about ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Welcome to the sane side
How do you tell someone, with diplomacy that you don’t want to have a prayer with you? I am an ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Ask them if they are really doing it for you or for themselves?
I'm an open book so ask me anything.
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 22, 2018:
Have you ever killed anyone?
If a guy or girl straight up asked you to have sex with them, how would you respond to it?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 21, 2018:
You mean for free?
Let me try posting these again
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 21, 2018:
I guess I screwed that up
Explain what intimacy means to you, in 20 words or less than that.
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 21, 2018:
Risky
These are mean and I feel kind of bad for posting them buuut they made me laugh so....
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 21, 2018:
Damn that Phillip, cheating bastard. Ha!
The gun 'debate' as I see it. Gun Control Supporter: Did you hear?! Another massacre happened at ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 21, 2018:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4T41M7cCqsU ???? Guntown - YouTube
I have achieved level 6! Behold my naughtiness and tremble before me! Cower, brief 5 through 1s! ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 21, 2018:
You da man
Flirting, what are your tactics when implementing this strategy?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 21, 2018:
For about a year of my life, when I was younger, I was pretty good at it. I don't know what happened but that skill left me. Now I say stupid things if I say anything at all..."You know I was thinking, in thirty years we will both probably be dead. I have a cat named Pumpkin and he always hacks up fur balls on my bed.". Stupid stuff like that.
A woman I like
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
Let me put on my guru hat..see if it still fits. Early love, romantic love, is an emotional situation we simply react to. After the early, dreamy stage ends, we find out how much we can trust our reactions in that stage. Some do pretty good, the rest of us not so much. Usually to break a negative pattern we have to figure it out and make, often uncomfortable, changes. Well it's possible we got unlucky but the more often it repeats itself the less likely it is that.
I just joined last night so I'm getting the feel for the site. Does everyone like it? I was on ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
It's the coolest site with the coolest people.
Can you fall in love with someone who you've never met in person?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
Nope. I thought I had fallen in love with a beautiful Scandinavian woman with blue eyes. It turns out it was Brutus, who owns a small engine repair business that he runs out of his parent's home, has three inches of hair on his back and loves to cat fish.
I was doing some reading about men being afraid to flirt and approach women. It reminds me of a time...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
Wow. If ever I get back in the game I'm going to try that approach, "Stay calm. I mean you no harm."
Kids
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
Here they are. I started late. Pretty much them, and to a lesser degree, my work, is my only purpose in life at this point.
Last seen on toast
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
Funny
How do you feel about buddbism ?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
I like mindfulness and being ok with internal and external silence. I find Buddhist concepts are helpful with that. Plus the Dalai Lama has the best damn smile and laugh.
Are you getting any?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
I forgot how to do it
Any other writers in the group?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 19, 2018:
I wrote one book but I'm not a professional writer. I think of a book for about five years and then eventually write it down. There are professional writers on this site.
I notice that this site is mostly made up of people from the U.S. I was wondering what you or your ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 19, 2018:
Heathens and Pinkos!! Damn, I need to move there
Basketball legend OJ Simpson??
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 19, 2018:
Don't take any pills from "O.J."
Easter is on April Fool's Day this year.
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 19, 2018:
Easter on April's Day? Sounds fitting
Seeking Information. Okay, I really couldn't decide what category this would go under. My question ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 19, 2018:
I'm waiting for a 100 percent match.
Joe Biden might run for President. I love this man! Your thoughts?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 19, 2018:
Bernie Sanders. We need corporate money out of politics if we want a representative democracy. I guess it is a representative democracy now, but it represents corporate America.
What is your biggest fear?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 19, 2018:
Well now that I've read this, it is being fully aware of the isolation and darkness when I die
Wow, Watching FACE THE NATION - the kids from the school shooting are amazing! Bravo!
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
I saw that. Very poised and articulate.
Does anyone else struggle with feelings of despair? The older I get, the more my heart is broken by ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
I can relate
Does anyone else struggle with feelings of despair? The older I get, the more my heart is broken by ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
I can relate
Male privilege is...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
True dat
To soon?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
LMAO
More bathroom humor. . . How low can I sink?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
You, sir, are the meme king.
Your feelings about ADULT CONTENT on this site?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
I was in this other Atheist/Agnostic site, and a few women would post nude photos that somewhat covered their crotch and nipples. It was all good. Then one day this chunky dude, bam!, posted a completely nude frontal shot of himself - grinning eat to ear. People lost their minds. He was my hero that day. It was funny as hell. He wasn't trying to be a pervert. He was trying to make a point. It was a damn human body. Anyway, they kicked his ass out of the group.
Creativity versus Creation. Your thoughts and understanding of the arts, in terms of history and ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 18, 2018:
And in the naked light I saw Ten thousand people, maybe more People talking without speaking People hearing without listening People writing songs that voices never share And no one dared Disturb the sound of silence Of course that is Simon and Garfunkel's, "The Sound of Silence". Which the group, "Disturbed", did a bad ass version of a few years ago. Art is consistent and it's purpose remains the same. It is a way of trying to connect that under tow we all experience, but don't have the nerves or words to express in everyday life
Your feelings about ADULT CONTENT on this site?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
I guess there has to be some sort of guidelines. I don't like it. But I'm not the one who decided a long time ago that the human body is taboo. Probably was a bad idea.
Who's your favorite superhero of all time, and why?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
Sponge Bob
Anyone here practice Mindfulness on a regular basis?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
Yes.
So I posted something earlier that I took down because my intentions were being misunderstood. I ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
This is a dating site?
What is the meaning of meaning? Who was it decided meaning is a thing? I know from experience the ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
I think I know what you mean.
The obsession with weapons...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
Our country is getting sicker in so many ways
Happy Saturday. What is on your to do list today?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
As little as possible
50 Member! You all rock! g:31 is off the chart! Looking forward to everyone's contributions!
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
I'm a taker not a giver
Damn dogs and their Nihilism!
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 17, 2018:
LMAO!!
Memories
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
The day my buddy and I were the altar boys. After the service the priest left early and we got into the wine. Ok, it's not my best memory but it was fun.
Good morning all. I hope you all have an intellectually stimulating day.
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
That's great stuff
It's All About Grammar - A Grammar Nazi woman, sends a text to her husband. You are as useless...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
So was he offended? Did they get divorced?
Who are you actually? Who is behind the mask that you show to the rest of the world? What is it ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
The older I get the more I'm just me. In my profession I know my strengths and my weaknesses. At this point I accept it and am not worried about trying to cover them up.
Is there a non-cringy way of telling someone you think they look nice on a given day?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
You shore look purdy
What do you know well enough to teach others?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
How to catch fish
Anyone here a psychotherapist?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
No you don't have to go through psychotherapy yourself to be a therapist. You do have to get your Masters degree, plus supervised hours and a test to be a licensed therapist. Specifics vary from state to state.
A friend I knew back in my high school days recently told me not to long ago that he found Jesus. I...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 16, 2018:
Jesus and Bigfoot are damn good at that hide and go seek game.
Do you tend to lean towards nihilism?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 15, 2018:
I don't know. Does it really matter?
Besides a partner or desire to find one, what helps bring meaning and purpose to your lives?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 15, 2018:
Donuts
Have you ever dated someone that reminded you of one of your parents?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 15, 2018:
Only ma's twin sister. She kind of reminded me of mom.
Is it just me or does others find it undignified for our VP Mike Pence, who said that he 'ignored ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 15, 2018:
"mother" aka ( his wife) probably didn't let him talk to another woman.
Have you ever declined a date with someone because of their name? I judge men on their names and ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 14, 2018:
It's the main reason I had to change my name. It was originally, Cornelius Cornpusel.
Have you ever used affirmations? I've read conflicting opinions on this. So, I'm wondering what ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 14, 2018:
I use a mantra first thing in the morning. "Getuuuuuassssuuuup, Getuuuuuassssuuuup, .... I almost always get up so it must work.
How often do you self-censor? Is it hard to bite your tongue?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 14, 2018:
I'm good at biting my tongue but my facial expressions often give away my feelings
Oh man, sometimes I forget how awkward I am. I'm at a singles event for Valentine's Day, and I'm ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 14, 2018:
Don't go
I don’t see the chances of the human species settling on another planet in our solar system due to...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 12, 2018:
I don't know how anyone could survive very long on another planet. No wi-fi, McDonald's or even a Walmart.
Why do we get annoyed? In another thread, it was discussed what things other people do, quirks ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 12, 2018:
The best answer I have is that it's incongruent with the "mind set" we want to be in. For example, the fact that I ended my last sentence with a preposition, might irritate people who are in the mindset that we should use proper English here.
If you start talking to a potential love interest online, do you get upset if you realize they are ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 12, 2018:
Yes, but I'm very jealous, insecure and controlling.
I wish I were more brazen in real life. Unfortunately, I can barely speak to other humans. This is ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 12, 2018:
That is genius. Sorry though, I'm not charismatic or a good speaker either. Plus, I have young children and can't risk dying yet. If I think of someone I will let you know.
So I am watching the Olympics and somehow I started wondering if men competing Olympics figure ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 12, 2018:
I think the key word here is "consensual". I just realized sensual makes up most of that word.
Guys I need your help. I feel like I'm losing my mind reading this person's argument. Am I ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 12, 2018:
I don't know. But after reading all that, I might need the number to this drug dealer you guys keep referring to.
About Yourself
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I recently learned that my imaginary girl friend has been cheating on me.
Do you think, poor uneducated homeless people deserve protection their human dignity? Many people in...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
It might be a good idea to stop electing opportunistic narcissists, who are high on ambition but low on compassion.
For men only: We're you in a fist fight as a youngster? Did you get a split lip? A black eye?...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
There was one guy in highschool who was hell bent on fighting me. He was bigger than me and definitely meaner. I finally decided to just go out and get my ass kicked, and get it over with. He was giving me a pretty good beat down. It was weird because I really wasn't feeling anything. I noticed he was starting to suck air pretty hard. He was a smoker and I ran cross country. At that time the Vice Principal came and broke it up. To this day I think he was getting tired of punching me, and I could of had a chance. People laughed when I said that. No, I wasn't traumatized. There is a lot more to the story, but I'm tired of texting. Only fight I was ever in....
Do you have a coping mechanism that works for you? How about one that works against you? I cope...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I give myself an ample amount of me time, visual imagery meditation and being aware of my self talk.....oh. And sometimes masturbation...Wait that falls under my first coping skills listed. Nevermind
What excercise routines are people doing right now? I do a mix of lifting, and HIIT cardio. I ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I used to run long distances. I ran a lot. Maybe too much. I could eat whatever I wanted and stay fit. Eventually bursitis stopped the running. I got fat. Then I discovered ellipticals. It was like running but no impact and I can do it. I push it hard for 30 minutes four times a week. I've been doing it consistently for eight months. Weight lost, a grand total of eight pounds. I guess I'm older now and it isn't running... . I remember arguing with this guy I know who is a trainer. He kept saying if you want to lose weight you have to change your diet. I guess he is right. However, not sure I'm going to do that. I feel better exercising, get a good endorphins rush, and pretty sure the exercise makes me healthier.
A Valentine's card for the Nihlists in your life. g:9 g:31
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
Keep them memes coming. Good stuff. They are going to make me more popular on FB
Agnostic Spiritual and/or Religious People?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
Oh this group is nice even if you aren't new. You make a good point.
Is Black lives matter. Racist, terrorist organisation?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
So black people, or any people who are tired of hearing about police needlessly killing P.O.C.and getting away with it, should just shut up? Ignore it? What the hell? BLM is a very diverse group. People who condemn the whole movement based on the actions of a few, well I have to question their motivation.
More shit from the orange guy in the WH.
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
No no You all don't understand. What he says are facts. They are just "alternative facts".
Attention all "non-believers!" Apparently we are missing out on important beauty tips. So in ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 11, 2018:
I don't know. It seems like people on this site are good looking enough
In the land of capitalism, capital is power. Why not use this to our advantage? If a large enough ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 10, 2018:
Justice Democrats. Only back candidates who refuse legalized bribes from super PACs. Universal Healthcare, higher minimum wage, make higher education free or at least so individuals are not stuck with extreme debt when they get out, no private prisons, green energy initiatives. You know? All the common sense things we would be doing if corporate America and Wallstreet didn't run the country for their own self interest.
Do you like hosting parties? I try to throw monthly parties with my friends, with game night ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 10, 2018:
Nothing
I've been paying more attention to my dog's reactions to things and it is dawning on me that she is ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 10, 2018:
Interesting. I'm pretty sure my cats think they are Gods
When you log into agnostic.com and no one has liked your posts or viewed your profile.
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 10, 2018:
I get very little action on my posts. Reminds me of my college days
An insider explains how rural Christian white America has a dark and terrifying underbelly
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 10, 2018:
Good read and made some good points. It does seem to ignore that both parties are complicit in the increasing wage gap between the rich and the rest of us poor slobs. It also over sterotyped certain communities. I am all for a real populous movement. However, that movement needs to include all people. Socially things have been getting better in this country, with the religious right fighting it all the way. Well Trump and both houses being in control of the GOP probably will momentarily set it back. However, social issues are progressing. Fiscal issues are going backwards. Get money out of politics for both parties. Money "Trumps" ideology for the majority of politicians Also I believe there is some elitism with Democratic Party. I remember with the Clinton Vs Paula Jones fiasco, James Carville made a comment, "That's what happens when you drag a hundred dollar bill through a trailer park.". Oh his fellow corporate Democrats thought that was so funny. The author writes well and makes some great points, but seems to fail to realize it is only a piece of the puzzle.
Hello and welcome to the ThE cReAtIvE tHiNkErS gAlLeRiE! I'll be experimenting with posts and I ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 10, 2018:
https://www.amazon.com/James-Slow-Dances-Soul-Dark-ebook/dp/B00VOCECLG
Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know. -- Ernest Hemmingway.(author) Have ...
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
A long time ago I worked with folks with Downs Syndrome. Overall, they seemed to be a happy lot. However, I wouldn't of traded places with them
Do you have PTSD?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
I'd be interested in the specifics of the high B complex vitamin regime
Who is Your Favorite Philosopher?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
This old dude with schizophrenia I used to work with. I am sure he is dead now.
ORAL SEX, are you getting as much of it as you want?
Rudy1962 comments on Feb 9, 2018:
I'm not getting any because my neck isn't long enough

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