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I've been widowed for five years following a 20-yr. marriage. My late wife had dementia for several years. Seek someone kind for dating, companionship, and hopefully leading to a long-term relationship. Am now retired. My politics are very left-wing, Bernie Sanders-type socialist. Partner would have be at least liberal. Dating range is women age 55-70. See my profile questions and answers to find my interests, but I'll list some of them at the end. But first, I'll save some time listing what seem to be the usual deal-breakers with most women

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According to one of my friends, I’m going to the Christian Hell just because I’m Pro-LGBT.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 15, 2021:
As Mark Twain said, "Hell for company, Heaven for virtue"...
How many in this group knew this over 5 years ago?
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 15, 2021:
I knew five years ago..
Now that's a prayer lol
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 15, 2021:
A big Amen from me!
These days I mostly just want someone to talk to.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 14, 2021:
I've never had kids, and that is by choice, so I have no idea what it's like to live with a 12 yo. I only have my Covid isolation of about 14 months, where about the only adult verbal conversation was pretty much on the phone. That period was really hard on me socially and emotionally, but your situation is probably as tough or tougher. Hope you find some relief and adults to talk to.
Humble vs Ego
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 14, 2021:
Interesting stuff. I admit that I love being right, in general, but most of the time I have no interest in proving myself right to others, at least in the city I live in, because I am too well aware of how much I am outnumbered by people who are not as intelligent, educated, or experienced in being around a diversity of types of people as me. So I don't bother wasting my breath or energy on them. They are simple, small-town hicks, even tho it's a city of tens of thousands. And it's not worth the hassle of trying to change or confront them and have them gang up on me and retaliate by hassling me later. My city used to be a small town of about 10K, until the late 20th century, when it began to attract lots of people from rural areas that wanted to live close enough to the good jobs in the Des Moines and West Des Moines area, but far enough away to not have to live around or send their kids to school with, POC. The vast majority of them are conservative Christians, racists, and Trumpers, and there's no changing them.
I'm defiantly happier since I been an Atheist and my mind opening to more things like dating outside...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 14, 2021:
I am open to dating someone who isn't white, but am very skeptical about it ever succeeding, since it's tough enough to find a woman even in my race that shares my offbeat, at least for Iowa, cultural and lifestyle traits. In fact, I recently connected and even met up in person with a woman who was black, and we seemed to hit it off well. But then she blocked me a couple days later on the dating site, after not returning my first phone call to her, etc. My guess is she was just too young for me, nine years younger, and used to dating men who preferred texting to actually talking on the phone, like I do. Live and learn, I need to date women my own age who are not into all the texting and being tied all the time into social media and tech. Someone more old fashioned, like me. The experience made me gunshy about ever approaching someone again on a dating site who isn't white, as she seemed to have no problem with that. First time that I ever tried someone not white.
An excellent point
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 14, 2021:
I have a couple friends who are way different than me on politics, and the only way we can get along is if we leave that topic off limits. One of them is a Libertarian, the other is a very centrist Dem who keeps refusing to recognize the faults and corruption of the Dem Party. But both of them agree with me about morality and share my morality, so I am willing to keep them as friends because of that.
What do y'all think about suggesting a correction to a mistake in someone's online dating profile?
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 14, 2021:
I've been there and will never do it again. Even politely pointing out an error in someone's profile gets a hostile, defensive reaction, in my experience, no matter how much you explain that you are trying to help and are interested in them. As a Catholic priest said to me, the first time I ever heard this saying, "No good deed goes unpunished." It always leads to the other person rejecting you, even tho on paper, at least, you seem compatible before the correction and the conflict it leads to.
Oh helll,,,, you know this was coming up at some point.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 13, 2021:
I always considered a lot of contemporary Christian artists to be either eccentrics who couldn't succeed in secular rock or pop, or in other cases, washed-up has beens from the rock scene who went the Christian route as a way to boost or extend their music career. Same way a lot of rockers go country after they get too old to do rock music anymore and no longer have any edge to their music. Similar to Christian movies, low quality versions of Hollywood films.
Dating in Arizona: Here's a quote from a woman's profile: "No I haven't gotten.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 13, 2021:
I think the profile proves the woman is nuts and someone to take a hard pass on, unless you enjoy crazy with sex and think she's hot enough looking to take the risk for some casual sex. Your call.
A strange case of identical cats.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 12, 2021:
Tuxedo Junction...
Some little asshole (Renfield) stepped in wet acrylic paint and left little Caribbean Blue paw ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 12, 2021:
Bad Renfield!! Looks so cute and innocent there. Who, me??
Fauci Says ‘It's Horrifying’ to See CPAC Crowd Cheering Low Vaccination Rates
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 12, 2021:
I wish Covid would wipe out a lot of these assholes, if only it didn't hurt other innocent people in the process...
Rebel HQ - Woman Thinks Her White Privilege Is Harassment [youtube.com]
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 12, 2021:
This Karen needs to be bitch-slapped so bad!!
Big tip you are wrong
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 11, 2021:
And in my mind, you wind up getting what you deserve...
Gallup agrees with Pew.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 11, 2021:
Marx said it long ago, "Religion is the opiate of the masses", and in this case, esp. so for the poorer masses....
I am very talented
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 11, 2021:
But for many people, alcohol provides an excuse for making them, and in our legal system, it often provides an out for not being legally liable for bad decisions or behavior.
And When I Die.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 10, 2021:
This is one of my classic rock/soul tunes that I sing at karaoke, that always seems to go over big with crowds, even here in the Bible Belt of Iowa.
Religious extremists.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 10, 2021:
Not surprising. FL has a lot of crazy there.
Truth as far as I'm concerned.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 10, 2021:
I can imagine it. Those people who no compassion, empathy, or conscience. When you are as rich as God, you start to think you are God.
First thing, let's establish I am NOT a genius.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 8, 2021:
You will probably have to find your like-minded friends online or drive to a Unitarian church wherever the closest one is. Or find a meeting of Atheists and Freethinkers by looking online for where the nearest meeting is, and attend those. That's the price of living in the sticks... It appears that you live somewhere in rural Washington state. I live in a decent-sized metro area, but unfortunately, it's in the middle of a hick state full of farms, so I am in the same boat as you as far as dating. But at least in my area, it's not that hard to find some intelligent non-believers. The problem is that at my age, they are mostly already taken or coupled up. Another way to maybe meet some intelligent, offbeat people is to check out a local community theater group, wherever the nearest one to you is. When I was young and living in a new town, that was where I quickly found a group of like-minded people for friendship, even if it didn't have anyone for me to date from the group. They were mostly older than me, but fun to party and hang out with.
The proof is the pudding.. how about just stitched on the sweat shop clothes.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 7, 2021:
No fucking shit..... And some of the blame also goes to consumers, both middle class and above, who voted with their dollars to support this outsourcing of jobs instead of continuing to pay a little more and buy from the American suppliers that were still available early in this outsourcing process. Every spending decision we make as consumers is political, whether we realize it or not....
Jen Psaki had enough of Greene
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 7, 2021:
No brains, very pretty, and a complete psycho. Sounds like the dream girl of most male Trumpers.....
Not feeling good today and my nurse is sleeping on the job. Go figure.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 7, 2021:
Most cats don't do much besides snoozing. 20 hours a day seems about right.
In 1927 in Plains, Georgia, a three-year-old boy named Jimmy Carter lived next door to an auto ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 7, 2021:
He is by far the most decent man we have had as president in my lifetime.
I decided to browse through the singles group and noticed many of our pictures are in there several ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 5, 2021:
I agree with your point. I think that nowadays the site has way fewer active members than a year or more ago, and that the admin. has flown the coop. We no longer get emails from the site with alerts for new posts for groups we are in or responses to our comments and posts. So it appears the site is running on autopilot. I have been thru this before with another discussion site, and eventually that site was overrun by scammers posting their ads on it to the point the site became unusable. I hope that doesn't happen here, but if it does, I won't be surprised.
100 Years After First Diabetes Breakthrough, Canadian Scientists Believe They’ve Found a Cure ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 4, 2021:
That would be so wonderful if it works and was made available and affordable to all with the disease, as diabetes causes so many other health problems and has such an effect on quality and length of life.
When it comes to God I'm not an atheist. I'm currently an Empirical (Weak) Agnostic.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 4, 2021:
Duplicate post much???
'I Really Like When Men': Woman's Devilishly Smart Dating Advice Will Change Your Life
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 4, 2021:
I take it you posted this sarcastically.
Can't really follow the narrative w/out your Translator...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 4, 2021:
And if we had a free and fair mass media, instead of the corporate media of gatekeepers and apologists for the ruling class, they would call the Repubs on these fake terms, but we don't. So they get away with using these terms unchallenged, and most of the sheeple fall for it.
Searching for the right one is not easy I'm 34 I'm single never married before anyone comes up here ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 4, 2021:
I was 37 and terminally single before I met my late wife in 1995. I was never married until age 41. So you never know what can happen with time.
Sometimes the presents cats bring are surprisingly not so appreciated...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 4, 2021:
It's the thought that counts...
War criminal Rumsfeld dies, but his militarist legacy lives on That Rumsfeld reached the age of ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 3, 2021:
Nice to know that if there were a hell, one of Cheney's buddies is already there waiting for him now.
Sounds like something I would do
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 3, 2021:
I might feed the tip jar like her, but I would be unable to refrain from calling the customer a Karen and telling her off in every way the helpless employee couldn't, knowing full well that if a manager got involved, I would not be penalized for defending the employee as long as I didn't cuss, assault the other customer, or threaten to do so. The manager would probably privately thank me later and I would not be scolded for confronting the other customer.
Stole this from a friend.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 3, 2021:
My late wife was married to an addict before me. They had a long and even sometimes happy marriage, but in the end, she had had enough of the turmoil and struggles, so she kicked him to the curb (figureatively) once she was able to survive on her own. And just as she expected, he died alone and drunk far from home, attempting a geographic cure where he thought he could start over again. The cops found him dead and alone in a hotel room. She found out because her name was still listed as his emergency contact in his wallet, so they called her. By then, he was so estranged from his daughter, that she wasn't listed in his ID papers, and my wife had to call her with the news. She wasn't really surprised either.
Born on the Farce of July: The Lie of MAGA Patriotism
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 3, 2021:
Good essay. He spells out exactly what I have always hated about what I call rah-rah fake patriotism, the kind promoted by the actual fascists and the country music crowd in their songs. With few exceptions, country music has always blindly supported America's wars and blind patriotism as well. Most of its fans are not exactly the most educated and brightest bulbs.
Disturbing Plea Agreement For Former Cop That Murdered Innocent Individual
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 3, 2021:
"Everybody knows, everybody knows. That's how it goes, and everybody knows".....- L. Cohen
July 1st, 1966
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 1, 2021:
Congrats on lasting so long. You've been married almost as long as I've been alive. That's hard for me to comprehend.
A thought on the trend of toxic threesomes.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 1, 2021:
Alrighty then.... Fairly confusing post. Not sure who you are referring to, you and two other people, a threesome you heard about.....?
No money for gas is the least of transportation issues.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 1, 2021:
Those are very valid reasons why some people can't work outside their home. But for right wingers, these are merely excuses, since right wingers see the unemployed as being morally failed people and undeserving of any sympathy or help, that is, until they themselves are unemployed. Then, it suddenly becomes someone else's fault, not theirs. They are hypocrites of the highest order.
I'm 34 single never married don't have children and I'm looking for a woman that will accept me for ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jul 1, 2021:
Aren't we all?
Fundie Family Member: If you are an atheist you will burn in hell for all eternity.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 29, 2021:
Good one...
One of the most meaningful essays I've read recently Let go of the people who aren't ready to ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 29, 2021:
I think Lou Reed summed it up well many years ago. " I do believe. If you don't like things, you leave"....
You are not just a cat ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 29, 2021:
Aww, how sweet. This is true with some cats, others are totally indifferent, as long as they get their food, water, and litter box cleaned.
Pause for a minute and let it soak in
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 28, 2021:
Because there's one kind of treatment for protestors against the status quo and the rights of the underdog, and another for protestors supporting the rights and rule of the ruling class. Why is there a difference? Because the police have always been more about protecting the wealth, property, and safety of the ruling class rather than doing the same for the peasants.
Good, very good.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 28, 2021:
Cats are so easily amused..
Hi—I’ve been close to AWOL for a few months while I focused on rekindling a relationship.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 28, 2021:
Yeah, but dogs and cats are much more loyal and reliable than most humans are in romantic relationships, so better to rely on pets.
Black Christian Stockholm Syndrome
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 27, 2021:
Reminds me a little of that scene in Cool Hand Luke where the prison warden tells Luke he is only being cruel to Luke " for his own good". The difference here is that, for the black Christian, they really believe their slavery to the religion is for their own good. In the movie Luke, instead, knew the line was BS, and told the warden, sarcastically, " I wish you'd quit being so good to me"... Of course the warden, being the sadistic MF that he is, hits Luke twice and yells at him to never talk to him that way again, "Nevah, nevah!"....
CNN Brianna calls out Tucker Carlson, he is white rage
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 27, 2021:
He's also a rich, entitled asshole, who, like his hero Trump, gets enraged at anyone who doesn't kiss his ass. He so needs to have his ass kicked physically by someone, but it'll never happen.
Miami condo collapse: Inspection reports note 'concrete deterioration'
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 27, 2021:
Proof of why honest building inspectors are so important. Same thing with building codes being enforced.
Structural engineer warned of problems before the collapse
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 27, 2021:
One reason I live in a three story building in a state where earthquakes are unknown.
Terri Conley: We need to rethink casual sex | TED Talk
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 26, 2021:
Usually, I don't watch TED talks that are posted here on Agnostic, as they are normally an hour long or more. Fortunately, this one was shorter and to the point. One thing I got from this is that Americans are very irrational about sex, which I already knew. And I bet that the more religious they are, the more irrational they are about sex. Secondly, the talk makes it clear that the myths are all about morality that is imposed on sex and those that practice it in non-conforming ways. Nothing new there either that I hadn't already known. We would all be better off if we took morality out of our attitudes about sex and kept it focused instead on just two things, which are, whether people are honest with others about their sexual practices, such as cheating, etc. and secondly, that sex should be between consenting, informed parties who are not exploiting others. Lastly, the main value imposed on sex should be practicing it safely for the protection of self and others from disease, but abstention should not be the primary method for achieving that.
Those who forget history are doomed to repeat it , Never again
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 25, 2021:
I heard that history doesn't repeat itself, but it rhymes...
Keeping the customer satisfied!
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 25, 2021:
With most cats, that would be the purrfect gift.
What are your dealbreakers?
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 25, 2021:
This topic has been posted before, I really have nothing to add to what has been listed or repeat my previously posted list except, someone who loves country music and has no intellect or is anti-intellectual.
I spent 32 years learning the lesson
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 24, 2021:
That's a long time to waste on someone, about a half or a third of a lifetime.
"None of these things are happening in any other developed nation.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 22, 2021:
I wish more of you would quit posting links that require either a subscription or some kind of registration. I want to just either be able to simply read it or not without any work. If it requires any work on my part, I will pass it by, since I already can find a lot of the same news and commentary on Commondreams.org, even with its faults and apologist slant for the Dem Party.
Seven justices - including two appointed by Donald Trump - rejected, for the third time, a ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 22, 2021:
This is the same as Roe vs. Wade, the Repubs and their judges oppose it, but they know they don't dare rule against it, or it would kill the Repubs in all future elections, so they let it stand when it comes down to eliminating it.
Dad has passed out after a long day with the kids
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 22, 2021:
Poor big papa...
Unfortunately not surprised
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 17, 2021:
Guess they must be feeling some embarrassment, not that that ever stops them from pursuing their agendas. Orwell would be proud of this latest example of Newspeak....
Is anyone else a winner?
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 16, 2021:
But it seems so real, it has be legit (snark).
Supermarket cashier killed in U.S. state of Georgia in mask-wearing dispute | Reuters
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 16, 2021:
Just goes to show how foolish open carry laws are when they allow assholes to be given carry permits.
Covid: US death toll passes 600,000 as vaccination rate slows [bbc.com]
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 16, 2021:
I think the final total US death count from Covid is going to end up somewhere short of 700K, but that's assuming there is not a later severe outbreak from one or more new variants of the virus that the current vaccines are not effective against.
Who else identifies as an introvert?
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 15, 2021:
Not me, but I generally prefer one on one interactions rather than a group social situation. I am more comfortable and relaxed in the former situation where I can go with the give and take and concentrate better on the conversation. As I understand it, a true introvert would prefer alone time to even a one on one social situation. I enjoy some alone time, but I enjoy time with a friend or partner more.
Genesis of Homeless by Mr. Hefferman (?
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 15, 2021:
None of this surprises me. We would have little to no homelessness if we had socialism instead of bare knuckles capitalism. Any liberal who chooses charity over socialism as a way to combat homelessness and poverty is being selfish and willfully in denial.
The Fucking President Has Fucking Dementia: Notes From The Edge Of The Narrative Matrix ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 15, 2021:
I was saying that about Biden way back during the primary debates, but no Dem loyalists would believe me or allow themselves to hear or consider it.
Disaster capitalism: Puerto Rico plunged into darkness after privatization of electric utility ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 15, 2021:
My brother has lived in PR for a few decades now, and he has bought a house here in Iowa for when he retires in a few years. After all the hurricanes, earthquakes, and now this, I can't blame him for wanting to leave. The place is a hellhole and this latest story is no surprise.
WATCH: Trump fans stream out of Mike Lindell 'MAGA' rally while he talks about Jesus ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 14, 2021:
For once, they were being honest about who they really are and what really matters to them. They worship Trump, not God or Jesus.
There is no christian persecution.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 13, 2021:
No shit.
Chris Hayes on why U.S. labor shortage means worker power
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 13, 2021:
Imagine what kind of worker power we would have if our level of unionization were much higher and the Dem Party actually supported workers over corporations, instead of just pretending to support unions and workers.
So, I'm used to some indecent proposals on pof, but today I was offered a "sugar daddy who will ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 11, 2021:
I have never had the looks to be a sugar baby, boy toy, or gigilo, and even if I did, I wouldn't try it. I don't have enough money to be an attractive sugar daddy to a woman, and even if I did have the bucks, I wouldn't agree to it. I take a lot of pride in my personal integrity and also in seldom allowing anyone to use me in a romantic relationship. I still get fooled by women from time to time in the dating game, by them standing me up or convincing me they are interested when they are not, but nobody is able to use me in a dating relationship since I was in my early 20s and wised up from the experience. In dating or an LTR, if a woman is working or has her own money, I insist that she pay her own way on expenses, so that way there is no ? or chance of someone being used financially. If they're too poor to do that, then maybe they aren't at my level financially, and we aren't compatible. I have heard it goes both ways, and plenty of women have told me they won't date a man who is too poor for them and requires them to have to continually "level up" the finances so that he can afford to go on trips or other expensive things with them.
I’m here to find my soul mate
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 9, 2021:
Good luck on that one, Sparky. Esp. since you say "Only God can give you peace of mind" and this is a site for non-believers, lol. I predict a short stay here for you...
Online dating profile.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 7, 2021:
I feel for you Sierra, living in Texas as you do. Women like her are probably a large % of the dating pool down there.. And she already lives in Texas and wants to "move to a conservative state". Where does that leave her? Nebraska? Kansas? Oklahoma?Mississippi? Alabama? It doesn't get much more conservative than Texas. Maybe some right- wing compound in Idaho or Montana?
After destroying everything in sight, knocking over the lamp, driving her older sister Bailey nuts, ...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 7, 2021:
So deceptively harmless and innocent-looking while she naps.
Ask your doctor...
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 6, 2021:
Pretty well describes it, which is why I won't discuss politics or religion with Christian Repubs, because they will never admit or recognize their hypocrisy.
[youtube.com] Just because it's beautiful.
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 5, 2021:
I generally like Neil Young and his music, but I hate country music and redneck culture, and this song is just too country for me. No coincidence that here in Iowa, this is his one song that all the redneck, country music-loving folks know and like, so that just leaves me out of it.
Derek Chauvin Asks For Time Served & Probation For George Floyd Death
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 2, 2021:
No mercy for this guy, as he sadistically showed no mercy to Floyd. Karma's a bitch, ain't it Derek?
In case you wondered which was which
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 2, 2021:
The Repubs know the difference too, they just constantly lie about who the fascists and terrorists are and aren't. And the corporate media is glad to play along with them and never challenge their lying, since the corporate media hate and defame anyone from the left who challenges the status quo.
Lucky was not amused with my dumbassery. 😹
TomMcGiverin comments on Jun 2, 2021:
You're right. That cat is staring with extreme disapproval...
Am I missing something here? I know they are
TomMcGiverin comments on May 30, 2021:
Just goes to prove that there's a match out there for everybody, lol!.
I just spent the last half an hour talking to a scammer :-( I blocked him immediately after he ...
TomMcGiverin comments on May 30, 2021:
These days I find the scammers amusing. I rarely get any that contact me directly.
Duck Dynasty’s Phil Robertson Had a Secret Daughter from an Affair in the 1970s | Hemant Mehta | ...
TomMcGiverin comments on May 29, 2021:
I couldn't care less about those ugly rednecks.
For those who have never seen a cat fish.
TomMcGiverin comments on May 28, 2021:
Some cats get tired of waiting for humans to bring them their fish to eat.
Yeah god give it to me!!!
TomMcGiverin comments on May 26, 2021:
Well, you know what they say, "Consistency is the hobgoblin of small minds"....
At fucking last
TomMcGiverin comments on May 26, 2021:
So true! Last Sat. night I went to my first live music show since Covid. It felt like I was fully alive again for the first time in over 14 months.
Stray Cat Follows Couple Right Into Their Home - YouTube
TomMcGiverin comments on May 26, 2021:
People only think they own cats, when the truth is cats claim their humans.
That was a mistake
TomMcGiverin comments on May 26, 2021:
Kitty pigged out and needs a diet.
Ah young love, and bad jokes
TomMcGiverin comments on May 25, 2021:
Sounds about right. At least she didn't murder him and claim provocation....Some people are tone deaf enough to make such jokes to a spouse. Most of us who've been married learned to do better than that.
If someone has already posted this, sorry for the repeated info.
TomMcGiverin comments on May 25, 2021:
No surprise here. Religious people tend to cover up or put on a front of being more nice, moral, etc. because they want to impress their religious peers and also to convince themselves they are getting to go to heaven.
Hello Looking for a similar minded woman for dating and possible long term relationship.
TomMcGiverin comments on May 24, 2021:
Using your first post here as a personal ad is a rookie mistake and a lame move...
So,...which???
TomMcGiverin comments on May 24, 2021:
This kitty looks middle-aged, so I'm thinking Lennon.
French “tourists” visiting the Bastille.
TomMcGiverin comments on May 23, 2021:
If only.... I can only dream that tens of millions of Americans would finally revolt, either thru peacefully voting for third party candidates in federal elections, and sweeping out both of the corrupt corporate war parties, or, storming DC to demand that the two major parties begin serving the masses instead of the rich and corporations. Never going to happen in my lifetime....
An Alabama Pastor Who Raped Multiple Children Was Released Early from Prison | Hemant Mehta | ...
TomMcGiverin comments on May 23, 2021:
He better hope the families of his victims don't come after him.
Talk me through this?
TomMcGiverin comments on May 23, 2021:
Have you ever watched the WE TV show Love After Lockup? What it confirms is that the people who end up dating inmates after forming connections online before the inmate's release are very dysfunctional people who are very desperate for a relationship, much more so than most other people on dating sites. Keep away from this guy and good luck with attempts to help this woman now or in the future. Until she gets some serious therapy, you will be wasting your time.
Vaccination badges are coming to Tinder, Hinge, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish and other dating apps
TomMcGiverin comments on May 23, 2021:
Not surprised at all.
Hissing Feral Cat Becomes A Couch Potato | The Dodo Adopt Me! - YouTube
TomMcGiverin comments on May 22, 2021:
So big and fluffy.
This chonky little munchkin has completed my feline family, bringing me to 3 exotic shorthair ...
TomMcGiverin comments on May 21, 2021:
They are all so cute! I envy you..
What do you think?
TomMcGiverin comments on May 21, 2021:
I'm at an age and stage in life that I have little interest in marrying again, but am open to it if the right woman is really interested in adding that step. But to answer the ? in a general manner regarding how I felt when I was younger and interested in marrying for the first time, I would say the answer is B, Six months is just not long enough to know if someone is right enough for you to marry, esp. if you have not lived together yet. I really think most people need to live together for at least a year or two before they can realistically know if they are compatible enough for the long haul. Living together is a whole other experience from living apart, at least in my experience.
Leaks Show DC Cops Justify "Aggressive" Protest Tactics: Expert (Leak Included Power Point video on ...
TomMcGiverin comments on May 21, 2021:
Thanks for posting this. No fucking surprise to most of us that there's a double standard on how protesters from the left are treated by cops compared to right wing protesters.
Shit and puke for Jesus! Teens targeted with racist & anti-gay abuse at Christian camps A...
TomMcGiverin comments on May 21, 2021:
Gee, and to think I grew up thinking that summer camps were supposed to be fun....further proof that finding Jesus is the ultimate snipe hunt...

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Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker, Spiritual
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