So called born again when I was seventeen , started loosing my faith since 2001 ,completely stopped believing around 6 years ago now a convinced atheist. Looks like I had multiple lives now realigning my life, I am a emotional , friendly , kind hearted man. But can speak my mind. Not into buttering someone up.. I love and prefer if people can be honest. Not having an opinion giving your opinion all the time is also liberating. Dutch can be very direct. But it is the tone that makes the difference. Divorced last January after having tried a polyandry relationship with my loving partner as she fell in love with another man....I am open minded , have had my struggles in live , not materialistic...love family life..love to . And hope doing it more in the near future as kids are almost all grown up