UPS Crush: So I've been crushing on the UPS guy that delivers to my work for longer than I'd like to admit. It literally took me months to get my act together to see if he was wearing a wedding ring because I get so flustered when he comes in. He only delivers about once a week, sometimes less so that's partly why it's taken me so long to work up the courage to even say anything other than hi to him. Anyways, I psyched myself up that TODAY WAS THE DAY! We've been getting more packages because the company owners use the office for their personal deliveries and it's holiday season. I have my name and cell written down on the back of a business card and I'm ready to go. I even wore a fricking dress!
Guess what? He delivered.....while my boss was in my office so I didn't get a chance to say anything to him! Grrrrrrrr! So now I wait again. It's SO out of my comfort zone to ask someone out, especially since I'll still be seeing him if he says no. I just want to get it over with but it looks like I'll have to wait longer.
I would be very flattered if you came up and wanted to talk to me and gave me your card with your number on it. If you seemed nervous I would understand and probably think it was kind of cute. Most people would be understanding about your nervousness, and if he's not, he's probably not the kind of guy you want to spend much time with anyway. His loss if he's that way.
Marcie: get a copy of the movie, "Legally Blond" and watch (or re-watch) it. There is a scene where the describe a technique of "Bend and Snap" that is suppose to work 85% of the time. Seriously though, good luck. I'm sure he will be flattered by your approach if he's unavailable and there's a good chance he'll respond positively to you.