I spent ten years in a Christian cult here in Texas. I have spent the last eight years getting to know myself. I became an Atheist, skeptic, anti-theist and Satanist in the past two years.I am constantly evolving that it's nearly impossible to get into a relationship. I believe this is the only life I am going to get. So I want to enjoy it. I meet men who bore me to death. No social life, hobbies, interest, and not very cultured. the worst part they are very religious or have a lot of supernatural beliefs and want to recruit or convince me. Which make me run for the hills. Does anyone else have this problem? I feel like I meet people with zero compatibility or anything in common.
Sounds dreadful. There are loads interesting fellas out there: they might not be living in Texas of course. Think if I were wanting to meet a nice bloke I’d head to Scandinavia. Strong minds, very cultured, mostly kind and well educated. Typically not ugly...
You've gone on an incredible journey... once you've done that it's hard to go back to "dull and normal" in a partner. There are times I wish I were into women because most of the men I meet are excruciatingly boring or conservative or just not interested in the world... and it gets worse after 60. Way worse. Unfortunately, I'm not into women as partners so, yup, I'm in a similar stuck place.
Are these religious guys latching onto you or are you meeting them somewhere?