Sorry i should have started a new topic when I asked about what wisdom was. Got some interesting answers though. Will wait a while then do that.
On the topic intended for this posting ...
Surely if you are wrong then any kindness shown is actually only temporary. [It is wrong not to think about them both together] or [It is correct to think about them together and delay before acting out the kindness]
Kindness can make a true difference. Especially in this day and age, treating others with respect, compassion, and dignity is of great importance. By treating those around you kindly, you can make a profound but significant impact in their lives. In fact, the way you treat others ultimately shapes the world you live in. If you are respectful and kind to others, it is very likely that you will attract similarly minded individuals into your life. Even more so, if you are habitually kind to others, most will automatically open up to you and treat you equally good.
Too many people want to always be right, and some to the extent that they are arrogant and condescending... It is never necessary, but some people like to think they are the smartest person in the room, and want everyone to know it. I prefer someone who is modest, and KIND!! My ego can handle not always being the smartest in the room, but I would never want to be the rude, or unkind person!